would it be easier to find a suitable match, if existing restrictions on s*xual relations were relaxed to some extent, if can not be totally scrapped ?
we all know what is important for us, our lives ! but, most of us behave like being concerned with useless things ! we talk so much non-sense which is neither important nor enjoyable ! in fact, we do all that we can, to escape from realities of life ! then, one day life escapes from us, leaving us dead ! should it continue like this ?
when on falling in love with someone, if you feel like being shaken to the core, being blown away like a dry leaf by a hurricane,don't panic ! do not resist, nor try to pull yourself out ! stay calm, and be aware of what's happening ! this doesn't happen to everyone ! it's the love and grace of the almighty that's working upon you ! you've nothing to lose except the garbage you've accumulated over your past, which otherwise you would not be able to get rid of, inspite of your best efforts !
everything about little children is so amazing, that we are just stunned, and love them unreservedly ! their expression, attention, ability to learn and understand people and surroundings, infact everything about children is so beautiful, that we need to examine ourselves and understand whether we have really grown up, or deteriorated !
are we happy being our ownselves ? if so, we shouldn't be engaging ourselves in mindless searches, stupid entertainments, conflicts with others, and most other such activities which we're normally carrying on. the true nature of our being is not just being our ownselves, but being universal! our way of living must continue this way, until we reach a stage, where we can find everything within ourselves !
we do dream ! we're being told to dream by the learned. some of our best dreams come true in our life time. but most of us atleast, if not all, do not seem to be enjoying our dreams coming true . at that moment, all excitement will be gone and feeling of being at the end of an episode comes in. as we're not comfortable with such feeling, we tend to switch over to fresh new dream.what if only we could enjoy our dream realisation, or if we could remain at peace without any dreams !
for being elevated. it didn't appeal to me. though few, who so ever were accepting me, were doing so, with love, affection and reverence. i was not against change, but against trying for it. "the effort was not worth" i thought. what about you ?
"is it among.............."? to consider the question objectively, we may have to keep issues like legal compliance, and existing social norms, or beliefs etc aside.
it's good, if both men and women work out their relationship. men should learn to get used, besides !
we are certain about with whom we don't want to join. can we say about "what we are looking for" with same degree of certainity? perhaps,no. but we don't like uncertainity and start defining "what we want". when we really come across with our description of mate, our heart does not agree. because it's not what we need. when our heart feels that it has met it's love, we may be reluctant to accept it. because it does not fit in to our description. our ego plays! which one should we follow ? heart? or mind ?
(1) stay tuned to the world, be smart enough to win always, achieve material success, and enjoy the satisfaction. (2) take a righteous stand, stick to rigid values, take all the beating given by the world without complaining, and enjoy the satisfaction of being yourself. (3) stay calm, be completely aware of within and around,(without being selective or judgemental), enjoy the state of being in love with everyone and everything.
i simply rejected the idea then, thinking "what is life without being emotional" ? i was cautioned about cost of being so. i was willing to pay the cost, being otherwise is not worth enough the loss of enjoyment, i thought. as i emerged in to a more or less non-emotional person now, when i look back, i could see that if i was as mature then as i am now, i could have achieved enviable material success. it was my conscious choice. it is now for others to make their choice.
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