are both these of same kind or different? an understanding could promote better relations between men and women !
if you're a man, tell her "know thy self !"she'll leave you immediately ! if you're a woman, ask him to be "just a friend !"he'll run away !
everyone thinks very reasonable and nice so long it doesn't concern their own lives ! but what happens when............?
many people seem to be reporting to be suffering from a feeling of loneliness. i wonder whether it is real !
i say about my self what i believe about my self ! my belief need not be true ! am i honest ? or a liar ?
isn't difficult at all ! only thing is you shouldn't try to find ! just watch it coming !
what interest`s you most pics or words? we often come acroos blogs and comments with no pics and often wonder how they look, there is certain amount of mystery to them .
so which pictureless profile would you all like to see and why?
i find it easy to believe others until and unless they are proved otherwise ! suspecting others is most difficult and may be even impossible for me .this has thrown me out of gear several times, given me surprises and even shocks at times ! now, after all these years of experience and with lot of effort, i could come to a stage of "not believing/not suspecting" so that no one could give me a shock ! what is your opinion and experience in this aspect ?
it was disgusting to read a blog explaining "how a bottle of beer is better than a woman !"more surprising fact is that the responsible member was not kicked out! it seems there are no checks in place to control such filth on the site ! why can't people see this as being more dangerous than scams? what if a woman blogs that her"pet dog is much better than a man"? i request all members to take serious view of such instances and condemn !
when someone i love says that i was wrong, what should i do ? readily agree with the person ? maintain silence ? or stick to the point and convince? i had always been a stupid in such matters, and this time also acted same . reacted spontaneously and now asking for advice !
these are not my words ! reported to have been said by a philosopher! our"self",the egoist self, not the real "core self" could do us immense harm more than anyone else ! it doesn't like us falling in love, as it's existence would be threatened ! we also, promptly listen to it, and draw ourselves back from loving whom we want, by either disagreeing or even quarelling with our partners !just beware !
"being in love" is just as natural as our breathing and does not trigger any defensive reaction. but,"falling in love"is a great event ! it's like lightning,earthquake,hurricane and could even be a nuclear explosion in some cases ! it throws us off balance ! we are not ready to be swayed away ! hence, the defensive reaction ! we try to come out of it ! unless we are ready for a free fall, or being carried by a tidal wave, we will not be able to sustain and enjoy the experience of love !