"in the present context, do we need to scrap all restrictions on consensual adult s*xual relationships ?" and if we do so, how would such a step influence quality of our life ?
"i like being myself"! very often we come across this statement. is there anyone here, who likes being everyone else , being present in everything, and being present everywhere ?
if you were to choose between "satisfactory relationship"and "success achievement",which one would you prefer ?
when everything was fine, she was alarmed at the pace of losing her own "self" on being in love and started being "self protective"! i assume myself to be wise, but my assumed wisdom didn't come to my rescue, and i behaved like a perfectly ignorant person ! i became panicky about possibility of losing her and done enough to precipitate the break down ! all this happened in spite of being able to foresee what could go wrong and even prior discussion on such possibility couldnt help !
it's easy to fool someone who's ready to believe others ! but i'm not certain as to who would be the ultimate fool ! the one who has fooled ? or the one who was fooled ? your opinion ?
i would like to tell all boys and girls on cs to stay with it, unless you've reached a stage of attaining "ultimate happiness"! reason being you never know what future has in store for you ! i would've never met her, if i hadn't joined cs ! i can't say what my future would be like, but i can say this "she's the last woman in my life !"
underlying causes for most of our actions, if not all, can't be traced back to our intentions ! cause depends either on external factors like existing oppurtunities and threats or on internal factors like felt need and emotions ! emotions are not our intentions ! in any case, cause for action falls beyond our intentions ! while this is the fact,we invariably embrace ownership for all of our actions and vehemently defend them ! the same norms we apply to other's actions as well ! why do we do this ?
it's no surprise that a boxer finds "friendship" hard to explain, and attaches high value to it ! if i ask myself when would i value "friendship"most, my answer is "when i fail to attain highier levels of existence or fail even to relate with others at a highier and deeper levels !" as such, it would be my last resort, since "friendship"being the most basic level of relating with others ! how about you ? would you prefer to value what could be a last resort ? or aim to achieve highier levels ?
in the context of cheating, decieving or similar offences, the perpetrator,on being forgiven, usually feels insulted, bears grudge on who forgives, and at first oppurtunity causes maximum possible damage to who had forgiven him ! this is what i've observed in real life through my experience ! what are your comments ?
could someone please tell me about an unmistakable sign of distinct difference between love and friendship ?
the most romantic moments of my life were, when we both were just staring in to each other's eyes, lying besides in open space under full moon, enjoying romantic fragrance of jasmine flowers, listening to soft romantic duet songs of movies,making a journey in to each other ! it was an experience of timelessness ! it's like being in a different world ! i was fourteen then, and i had no personality ! is there any one here , who's experienced their experience of love being spoiled by their personality ?
as i find no reason whatsoever to be unhappy ! there's no need to seek or search for happiness ! it's within ourselves ! being happy is the true nature of our existence ! same could be with you, if you can understand true nature of your unhappiness ! want to try ? go ahead ! all the best !
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