In order to create good relationships - with your mind, think about what you have to learn from others; with your eyes, look into good qualities of others; with your words, recognise, value and appreciate their accomplishments; with your actions, cooperate and do something for others.
As we grow in strength in our spiritual life, we give up the habit of worrying. It serves no purpose other than to make us feel tense and miserable. When I stop fretting about things that are beyond my control and focus instead on generating optimistic and kind thoughts, my life can begin to flow in ever more positive directions. Such a light and easy approach to life enables me to take everything in my stride.
Expression: When the mind searches for reasons to be sad and sorrowful, even situations with no great significance are seen with a vision of negativity. So there is constantly an expression of words and actions that reflect the need for sympathy and reassurance. On the other hand, when there is the search for happiness, then everything is positive giving happiness..
Experience: When I am happy, I start perceiving everything with that vision. It is like wearing coloured glasses. Whatever colour my glasses are, the whole world is coloured with it. Then, I am no longer able to perceive and recognize negativity and I am able to remain happy with everything.
“If you love a flower, don’t pick it up.
Because if you pick it up it dies and it ceases to be what you love.
So if you love a flower, let it be.
Love is not about possession.
Love is about appreciation.”
"Loose Lips Sinks Ships".
When you are succeeding and rising in life automatically you become a natural target for gossip(gap`sap).How one see's the world outside is a reflection of what lies inside.
Some sayings :When the fox cannot get the grapes,he says it's sour . One will pelt at trees which bear the fruits they desire.As long as the wind blows,gossip flows.
Haters always hate what they don't have.
So we must always see good in others.Always be conscious of the God inside of us.Gossip can hurt the minds of others leaving irreparable , unhealing scars and pain.Never repeat things you are not sure of or have first hand knowledge about.Make sure the message you relate is the same one as you received.As human beings we should realize all great things are inside of us peace,love ,divinity godliness.Practice a life of great humanity respect others and respect will be your gain.Have a good weekend.
When one tries to tarnish the character of the innocent,it shows clearly that one sees the shadow of one's own sad ,helpless life in others. As the saying goes haters hate what they can't have. Just love love and be loved.
We have all procrastinated at some time in our lives. The habit of procrastination fatigues you more than the effort it takes to do it. A completed task is fulfilling and energizing; an incomplete task drains energy like a leak from a tank. If you want to build and maintain a positive attitude, get into the habit of living in the present and doing it now.
"He slept beneath the moon
He basked beneath the sun
He lived a life of going to do
and died with nothing done"......James Albery
What matters is to live in the present, live now, for every moment is now. It is your thoughts and acts of the moment that create your future. The outline of your future path already exists, for you created its pattern by your past.
Sai Baba
Never fight for attention from people because it will only create a mansion of tension. You are special in your own way and do not need compliments from others to justify your existence.
Silence is something that comes from your heart, not from outside. Silence doesn’t mean not talking and not doing things; it means that you are not disturbed inside. If you’re truly silent, then no matter what situation you find yourself in, you can enjoy the silence." -Thich Nhat Hanh
Peace is not only the absence of external noise but the quietness from a busy mind that is full of agitation.
Try going within and listen to the silence of the soul, you will be able to access the stillness of the universe.
Just smile today and be happy because no can do it for you. Remember to let go your disturbed thoughts and let in the peaceful feelings that you really are. When ever you live in anger and arrogance you lose out from the magic of life. Friends, life is to precious to miss out on the divine love in the air.
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