Some of us search a life time and never seem to find true love. Others have but foolishly, didn't know something's important, until you let it go. And there's heartless players; is this what becomes of the broken hearted? How do we know when an emotion we feel is love? What is true love? Is there butterflies in our stomach or does our heart skip a beat? Do we know our current partner now is truly the one? Our soul mate, our other half or are we tired of searching and happy just to find a companion, a routine, a compatible software with a user friendly interface? "In sickness and in health, till death do us part", or "I'm taking the children and my lawyer said half". How do we know what we have is love and importantly is it true?
Have you ever felt, the feeling of an emptiness inside, like there's something missing? And no matter how drunk or high you get, that emptiness always return; that moment memory when hope becomes disappointment and you try so hard to forget, that one time mistake, now a life time regret. Waiting for time to pass so wounds will heal, but a scar will forever last.
People say, 'time heals all wounds, but some wounds become scars'.
People have told me that time heal all wounds; but is it not that some wounds become scars? And from these scars we manifest insecurities that we than take into our next relationship; is it because we are afraid of being hurt, addicted, cheated on, lied too etc?. Therefore, it is easy for us to be selfish; protecting ourselves out of fear of something that might not happen. We hence than neglect to see right from wrong, ignoring all reason and logic; wanting, demanding, craving the unreasonable. The pain of love has been imprinted into your heart....love ain't nothing but a drug...
In modern western societies, man and women are suppose to perceive as equal and hence, they are entitle to the same basic human rights, the same wage levels, the same respect. However, equality within the 'gender pay gap' is just a theory, as reality portray a different view.
The following table illustrates the 'median weekly earnings of full time wage and salary workers within the U.S as at 2009, by sex, race and ethnicity'(Wikipedia, gender inequality)
The average wage gap percentage within Australia in 2013 was recorded at 17.5%, with the gap increasing as we go up the corporate hierarchy.
I have always wonder, if ghost and spirit really exists? Heard so many stories but no evidence to show and too afraid to go looking; venturing into something I don't full know. Assuming what if, spirits are real and being the curious cat that I am and end up getting killed; I go disturb the dead so they can be undead.
However, there have been times when I got too drunk or too high from MJ or just really really fatique and stressed out from work, I sometimes see shadows out the corner of my eyes but when I turn to investigate, nothing, too much doubt to be conclusive so I usually dismiss them as trick of the mind. My point being, if you can hallutionate and experience things such as seeing shadows, hear voices or simply a run of bad luck, while under the influence or NOT under the influence of a control substance, hence doesn't it mean your brain is powerful enough to enable you to experience logically unexplainable things, for example seeing shadows etc, therefore isn't it possible that a lot of encounter people experience are fictional imagery of the mind?
The other scenario is that I have actually experience an encounter with the dead, but just didn't know.....
My friend asked me why some people call her crazy, like people at times have called me crazy or insane? Maybe because we are different to them, maybe we do things outside what they perceive as normal or sane? Maybe we are just excited or over enthusiastic about something and act weirdly. But does that make us crazy or just unique? We don't talk to walls or have an invisible friend; nor do we scream and yell at the moon. People judge and assume for they do not have time to find out the truth and the fear of things that are different gives them the excuse or reason not to seek the truth. "The truth will set you free", however, "you can't handle the truth".
Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about...so be kind.
"There comes a time in life when you have to let go of the pointless dramas and the people who create it and surround yourself with people who make you laugh so hard that you forget the bad and focus solely on the good. After all life is too short to be any but happy"(google wallpaper quote)
Opportunities comes our way everyday, it's up to us to accept or decline.
In a dog eat dog world of corporations, Ethics and Profits, equals Bullshit. Ethics must also provide a profitable return.
Don't drown yourself in speculation and forget to find the truth. Common sense has become a super power
Using a computer as an analogy for our brain and software as our emotions. Like computers the human brain, personal characters and traits are programmed into us at the developing age of our childhood. So our life experiences governs who we are? Our emotions, which we would have experience numerous amount of times, becomes so natural like memories recalled, picture in our mind. Hence we call it software that have been programmed into our day to day life and when situations arises, these emotions are triggered by touch or by sight, mixing the chemicals in our brain to suit that specific moment, encrypted functions within a software when double clicked, Used when the time is right. So the feeling we feel sometimes hard to control, but why control something that comes naturally? Just be aware and considerate, common decency, that is all. But in today's capitalist world, where greed and corruptions, now booms and thrive, thus Money equals Stability hence equals Happiness but love and loyalty forgotten, the fittest will survive. Over populated with finite resources, poverty in socialist and communist nations, will force you to fight, collectivism will force you to cheat or else you and your family will die. But for the ones who live in Free Market societies, we compete to be better, not for our community but yet for ourselves, back stabbing one another, an individualist insight. Hofstede and Porter, Plato and Schwartz, analysed cross cultural societies but was limited by the technology of their time. Our future holds the answer to why people cheat, lie and criticise, the things or people they don't know, does it gives them pride? Maybe their character is flawed or a mistake of culture, a by product of the changing times? We will never know, for their perspective of the world, their values and norms, their wrong and their right, we will never see the world through their eyes. I have tasted the bitterness of poverty, my mother and I. A single mother in a foreign country escaping war, abuse and poverty.From rag to riches we did survive, hence my programming when I see poverty, inequality, abuse of simple human rights, tears flows from my eyes, for I imagine the hunger and sourness, of past memories experienced, my mother and I. I now understand the difficulty of raising a man in a foreign society of racist and red necks, teasing and calling us names. But how to blame someone who just don't know and refuse to understand, ignore them I guess, pretend they're insane.
'Ignorant is Bliss' for whom don't know how to change, what you give is what you get, starting something or starting on someone because you don't like them and barely know them for your selfish entertainment, laughing at other peoples misery or clumsiness yet won't laugh at ourselves for no one wants to hear they're wrong nor see their errors. Greed, selfishness, love, care, hatred etc. these are our programs. Be aware of not just what is in front of you but things and people that's around you, our skin might be different, our language not the same, but we bleed the same colour, we are all humankind in Darwinism,coming from the earth, coming from the sand, yet peace only comes with unity, when differences are erased and we see each other, as one and the same. Creatures of emotions, feeling love and pain, angels and demons, battling God and the Devil, twisted little game.
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