To anybody that have been hurt before...You have to be more stringent in your criteria for being with someone since your past hurt.Be patient,sorround yourself with the things and people that makes you happy while working on your own Happiness and to be ready when the right man/woman finds you.Dont trust anyone right away or give them the benefit of a doubt as you all so often do!.Its not being overly cautious,its being Smart!.Make that person prove that they genuinely care for you,if he/she is really into you and their word is good over an extended period of time,which may take a while since you've been hurt before.His/her word and actions must mesh time and time again over this extended amount of time.Then if or when it does,let love back in and give love anothe chance.
There are no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship,just as there are no perfect spouses.every marriage /relationship is made up of two imperfect people.To have a successful & happy marriage/relationship does not mean you have to have a perfect spouse or a perfect relationship.,its when you choose to over look each others imperfections and trust that it will be ok.
A friend of mine gave me advice on relationships.she said ''Everyone is/will be looking for someone that just puts the icing on the cake.i believe that we should look for a person that shares our personality's strength and weaknesses.The perfect fit for one own individuality.
The world's hunger is getting rediculous.There is more fruits in a rich man's shampoo than in a poor man's plate.what do you think?
''The struggle for true and universal human emancipation still lies ahead of the children,youth and future generations of our planet''.Nelson Mandela.
As much as we like meeting new people and making friend,note this.Everyone in the front row isnt always a fan.The people who thrive to see you fail will pay the most to see your show,so be very selective as to whom you call a friend.
when we argue,as inevitably we all do,how do you fight?.we arent always going to see eye to eye and situation and circumtances can get pretty hectic,especially when we feel like we are right.But how do we get our point across without causing a further rift?
Overcoming poverty is not a gesture of charity,it is an act of justice.It is the protection of a fundamental human right,the right to dignity an a decent life.
As of today, you no longer beg for attention like a worthless dog.As of today you will no longer use people as self-esteem pills.You will no longer give your power to what is pitiful,painful or poisonous. As of today ,you will no longer double park your emotions for unacceptable devotion. You will no longer play small to please ants.As of today,if they dont like you.you will no longer cry,lie or die to make them happy.As of today, you will no longer give your power to foolery,fakeness,phoniness ignorance.
Being honest may not get you alot of friends,but it'll always get you the right ones.Honesty is a luxury that most people can't afford.I respect those who tell the truth no matter how hard it is,so try to be honest as much as possible.
''I want you back'',does not always mean that they've learnt their lesson,come to their senses,or even care about you now than they did when they treated you like gabbage.''I want you back'' also means i can't stand to see you do good without them.they wont do any different when they get you back.Understand this ,if going back means going backwards,then you can do good all by yourself.
i recently got a mail from guy,he was really friendly and so we exchanged numbers.we talked for about a week,to me he was a good friend so far.three days later he said that he was looking for a s*xual relationship and not a social one,he stopped communicating.
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