Arguments in relationships

when we argue,as inevitably we all do,how do you fight?.we arent always going to see eye to eye and situation and circumtances can get pretty hectic,especially when we feel like we are right.But how do we get our point across without causing a further rift?
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Hi Molline
Arguments are as part of relationships as death is to live. It is inevitable but no need for it to get out of hand.

What I like most about an argument is making up afterwards and laughing about the whole silly affair.laugh
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molline2010
"how do you fight?"

If I told you that, I would be disarming myself ! wink
But nice try. laugh cheers
First, I make sure there is room for logic, depending on the reason and or immediate needed action..if it is just minor then I smile..if it serious, I TAKE ASSESSMENT IF IT IS WORTH FIGHTING OR ARGUING ABOUT..Molline, I am a college professor (retired) and my temperament is guided by principles of disciplinary control (ethics) which is often disregarded on such a humanly emotional outburst, then I calmly and seriously express myself..Now having been married to a pure Irish blood for 25 years with my Spanish and Italian Filipino heritage..let me tell you, most of the time I was compelled to yell back..boy did it shock my mother,..anyways..but..I always prevailed..shut my door and when I get out roses and chocolates (my weakness) on the door...

But in public, I just look at the person who is out to get me for argument..they eventually become my friend..And after my cancer?? No room for such...just smile and love every minute of life...bouquet
no keep out of arguments just say sorry its easier when argueing its easy to say something that will never go away will last forever and will never go away people are hurt easily we should remember that
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