Hello there I am John 37 single in Champaign,IL USA I attend Unity Chuch in Urbana IL I have been trying to find a girlfriend while at Unity but it has never worked I have friends who say that church is the best place to find love but so far it never seems to find me. I often wonder what do I have to do in order to find love I am almost 40 and I want to be married before then but it has never happened what do I have to do....