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Two options: rude or kind, Which one for you?

What causes rudeness:
1. Individualism and lack of restraint—I’ll do it my way. When we care little about what others think of us, we think little of them. We feel less bound by respect and restraint.
2. Inflated self-worth—People who are self-absorbed don’t value others except as a means to fulfill needs and desires.
3. Low self-worth—People who are insecure may become defensive and hostile.
4. Materialism—The quest for money and possessions to be happier often is futile and frustrating, resulting in less kindness to others.
5. Injustice—People who perceive they have been treated unfairly can become demoralized, depressed, indignant or outraged. The injustice may be a feeling of envy—it’s unfair that you are smarter, better looking, wealthier than I am.
6. Stress—People who are overworked or overwhelmed with things to do can react from stress.
7. Anonymity—We move among strangers on the streets; we don’t know our neighbors.
8. Not needing others—“We are content in electronic isolation. This is not exactly a strong incentive to work on our social skills….We want the feeling that we can connect with them without the burden of having them at our door.”
9. Anger
10. Fear
11. Mental health problems

Benefits of kindness:

*Kindness helps everyone – you, the person receiving your good will and anyone who observes it. All benefit from any act of kindness.

*No matter how large or small the act of kindness or words of celebration, the body reacts with endorphins that reduce stress and adds peace into our daily lives. Stress is everywhere, held tightly in our bodies and we can release that stress by performing acts of kindness each day.

*We seek happiness and peace in our lives and we have a powerful ally in reaching that goal when we add kindness to the top of our priorities.

*Kindness is free and yet the gift is priceless for everyone.

*We can reduce anxiety, depression and other stress related issues when we reach out to another person and show them simple kindness. The body responds automatically and a calm feeling replaces the negativity we were feeling.

*We increase our own level of self-worth when we recognize others and reach out to them. Remember this can be as simple as a smile.

We are human beings and not perfect ones, we make mistakes, I consider rudeness one of them, sometimes we tend to be rude involuntarily, but from now on we should try to stop being rude sometimes and remember that being kind is way cooler so...

Have a good day all

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This is me before and after....

How about you? Have your looks changed much while growing up or if you compare a baby picture of yourself you are easy to recognize ?

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Christmas decorations at home

Finally my mom and I got done with the Christmas decorations at home. I am very happy because I bought her new curtains and she is so grateful and watching her smile its my Christmas present. My auntie brought me flowers yesterday and all my house smells nice!!! Today was the first day of the Advent and this morning we fixed our Advent Wreath and then I relaxed at my living room with the tree on and some fine divas music, drinking some eggnog, perfect weather, perfect scenario, perfect music ...I was only missing some good company because I was home alone, but soon I guess

Here I share some pics for all of you to watch my living room so welcome!! (We literally decorate the whole house even bathrooms but no I wont post pics of all just the living room and the porch lol)

Do you like decorating your house on Chirstmas? We lovveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee it, Christmas is our favorite holiday it is simply beautiful.....

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Nameless blog....

I haven´t been here much this week, but I happen to have a few hours this afternoon to be on line... I come to the site looking for a nice thread or blog to read and comment but... I have noticed that those are scarce, more and more, which gets me sad because this site has always been fun for me. I have been silent about lots of blogs I've read in which "bloggers" fight, insult and laugh of each other in a nasty way, resuming all this in one word BULLYING. Without trying to offend or insult anyone, I can't help to wonder if they are aware this is only a site, where you share your opinions and thoughts, and just because you can't see the other person doesn't gives you the right to come here to insult who ever you want to obtain powerful feelings or what ever reason you might have to do such thing. Persons deserve respect, WHY one has to be rude with another in a public blog?, Why can't you handle things privately? I know everybody can write what ever the heck they want in their blogs but honestly some blogs have left me amazed because it seems they weren't written by adults instead of blogs they seem as nonstop fussing and accusations, we are on the internet for Gods sake, not involved in a lawsuit/trial before a judge. I have nothing against anyone in particular but I have noticed sides between bloggers and this I consider ugly, but everybody has their way of being and culture I just can add that I wish this could stop and let the site be what it was intended to be a place where one can communicate internationally, participate (in a respectful way) in blogs and forums and games with friendship and relationship purposes. I do not mind if my blog doesn't get 39485858969693453046304 views or comments, what matters to me is that if you want to comment you remember to be respectful, because it is only my humble but true opinion and, keep it cool...

have a good day all

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JO JO JO

I saw this today and said to myself I gotta share it so cute and funny aaawww Christmas love this time of the year, good day all!!!

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What smiling means to you?

"A smile is a little curve that sets a lot of things straight", true or not? In my case I have to say definitely true, I doesnt matter what kind of day I had or how bad things might be for me at the moment or simply that sometimes I feel down and all of the sudden a friend calls and puts a smile on my face, mom & dad are waiting for me with a smile, my niece smiles at me and lights my world up when I come home, my puppies start barking and running like crazy when they hear my voice, having a good time with my sis who is soon to be married gets a big smile on my face and I was thinking just now how beautiful it is to smile, of all the expressions a human being possess smiling is the best. It provokes instant happiness, gives me hope, a sense of tranquility and a big proof that I am loved by many. Smiling means a lot to me it makes my heart beat stronger and makes my days sweeter, what does it mean to you? We gotta keep smiling because people that smiles lives longer

Have a good day all :)

I love it when I am smiling like this

My beautiful Denisse

I look tired but I dont care we had almost 8 hours being standing up to spend the best night of our lives me & sis at Mark Anthony´s concert woooohooooo best present I have ever given her VIP tickets

My favorite people on the whole world my parents <3

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Why worry? RELAX instead

I m sure we all get stressed and sweat small stuff most of the time, it happened to me today, but a dear friend read this quote to me, its so true and nice that I felt like sharing it with all

"Why worry about things you cannot change? Let go and move on because LIFE isn't WAITING"

So my friends lets just R E L A X

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Thankful for another year of life

Although I have to state this has been the hardest year of my life I am thankful for it and happy I am home and will celebrate this special day in my life with the people I love the most my family and friends, also my beautiful pets, all smiles in my face HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME

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Have you ever ....

feel this way? I feel like someone took my heart out and got rid of any feelings it had ugh I honestly hate this feeling but I know eventually I will feel good... I cant help but wish that people once in a while could be nice but I guess that is too much to ask to "some" these days ....

Have a good day all

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Weddings...

In my professional life I have had the honor to celebrate lots of civil marriages. I have witnessed so many "love promises" than anybody else I guess. It is fun,it is nice, seeing (sometimes not always) the true commitment of two persons when they decide to get married.

I can describe marriage as a solemn act by which a man and a woman who are willing to have a life in common unite to procreate, that being, at least in Honduras, the main purpose of the celebration of a marriage; others, and I aint joking see marriage as a jail lol.

Last week I had the pleasure to celebrate my lil sisters civil wedding, it was something so emotional for me, and, I had so many questions in my head, will this man take care of her? will he always be there for her? will be stick to his word?. They ve been together for 8 years, ups and downs and finally when the day arrived I dont think I have ever seen him as happy as he was and that made me tranquil, because they both made me feel they were sure that they wanted to commit their lives forever.

Its been stressful, lists of guests, what to serve, what to say, what to drink, how to dress oh my so many things, and one wishes for everything to be almost perfect...I wanted that for her, weve been through so much, me and her, but I love her and although not everything came as I wanted lol it was perfect in its own way.

I was insane in church when I saw the priest and it wasnt the one we were expecting, he was new and couldnt even read, but he managed to say important things to them, then at the get together I almost faint when I saw so many people uninvited there, people we didnt even know, like a 100 kids lol the sound failed, it was pouring, my dad had a funny lil accident with his shoes gosh I was freaking out cause I wanted everything almost perfect and it was completely the opposite ... but then I saw them smiling and kissing and just then I sat down and watch them enjoy their moment and said to my self "that" is perfect I dont need nothing else...So after a very stressful week and body aching of all the things I had to do I can say that I am happy for my sis and her husband, she finally had her dream come true

and hopefully I will have nieces and nephews very soon !!!! here a few pics

Civil Ceremony Before the I do´s I put them to read, it was a very special moment

While we were preparing the tables

100% Married with sopme of my nieces and nephews (of my cousins)

OMG the cake was so pretty

Me and my best friend at the end of everything I could have time to take a pic lol

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I have a secret admirer wow!!!

I received this flowers this morning and after being a bit angry this has me smiling!!!!!!!

who ever did this thank you!!!!!

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Nice view of the sun today

It is 11:03 am in my city San Pedro Sula, it is hot as hell but I am enjoying the wonderful show the sun is giving us, yeap God´s creation is beautiful, one has to learn to enjoy these gifts from above, have a nice day all

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Two options: rude or kind, Which one for you?

This is me before and after....

Christmas decorations at home

Nameless blog....

JO JO JO

What smiling means to you?

Why worry? RELAX instead

Thankful for another year of life

Have you ever ....

Weddings...

I have a secret admirer wow!!!

Nice view of the sun today

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