Last night I went on a first date with a man I met on line. First off, he did not look anything like his picture. His picture was old and he told me that he had gained 40 lbs. But when he picked me up....let's just say that he gained alot more than 40 lbs. So I set that aside, and tried not to judge him and went out with him for the evening.
I travel more outside the city I live in, so it was rather funny that he knew more about the city I live in than I did. We went to a local bar, where he proceeded to manhandle me. I explained to him that I don't do that on first dates, and I would appreciate if he would respect my space. Because we were in an atmosphere that was rather loud, he felt that he could lean into my ear and talk to me while rubbing my back. And after having a meal, which I stated I was full, felt that he could rub my stomach.
Needless to say, I had a few drinks to try and relax. I started drinking too much and couldn't find my way home....lol. We had left the bar and I was rather unstable, and because I couldn't find my way home, he told me that he could just keep me hostage. Now....being under the influence, that tended to not set well with me...rather, it being a first date, and the fact that he would not respect my space....was actually kind of scary.
He got me home safely and proceeded to try to force a kiss on me. I dodged in every direction, but he was quite forceful. I finally had to pull myself away and tell him no. And then, to top things off, my mom accidently locked me out of the house....lol.
So, it wasn't such a good evening. So just for giggles everyone, could you please comment and tell me what I did wrong.....lol. I want to know why it is that when I tell a man to respect my space he suddenly becomes deaf.
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