True love is when you are willing to sacrifice your own needs for the sake of someone else it doesn't get much better then that. When you are truly willing to do that, you have true love. I agree with the gentleman above.
Actually, we talked for several days before we met. And, no, he was never suggestive on the phone. He made himself sound like the perfect gentlemen. I was not far from home either. I was within walking distance of my home, from where he took me.
Everyone seems to have missed the point here. The point was, why do men feel they have to have their hands all over you on the first date even when you make it clear that you don't like it or want it. This is not the first time this has happened to me lately. My last first date was a little over a week ago with another gentlemen, which was a daytime meeting, and he did the same thing to me. What I want to know is why, when I tell a man that I do not enjoy touchy, feely on the first date, that it is not respected. I'm sorry that everyone misunderstood my statement. But my question was basically, why can't a man respect my wishes.
Is distance truly a killer of relationships, or are people killers of relationships? I wonder. People put so many restrictions on themselves instead of letting life and love flow in and around them, never realizing that restrictions can cause us to settle for something we think we want, yet down deep we do not. One thing I have never done is settle, and I never will. If I should find someone that I have deep feelings for that is all that will matter to me. I will not restrict myself and lose out on true happiness. My mother met someone on line this past week from another state. He is coming here this weekend to meet with her, having told her he felt she was worth the trip. When you connect, you connect. Is it worth passing it up and wondering for the rest of your life, what if....? I realize that there are some of us whose circumstances make it impossible to travel to meet a possible love connection. But if that is not the case, what is holding you back from taking the chance of finding true happiness for the rest of your life?
ladyofthelake Blog Comments (6)
RE: BLACK ARE WHITE
Very well said we all do bleed red. Go for it!!