A date from a far away stranger...
As most people have realized on this site, that you find attractive people on this site, some nice, and I suppose some not so nice.I myself had met someone a while back, and we had felt a chemistry, that felt like "real love".
She returned home, some 1000 miles away, and we chatted for a while, and she wanted to meet again, to, perhaps to see if it was "real". To me it was like heaven when she was in my arms. She came, stayed for 11 days, we were intimate in the last couple of days, and it seemed everything was so fine. She returned home, and then ended it, and explained to me that what we had shared, she would remember for the rest of her life. She was going to pursue "someone" closer to home. She removed herself from the CS site, and I guess she found that "someone" and I never heard her from again. Well, I am happy for her that she found a way to delete her profile and find love. Sure, she has mislead myself, and perhaps others...But that feeling she helped me to feel again was amazing, and I would not bash her for that. So, I do know that the emotion of love is still abtainable, no matter what.
So, I have decided that I need to be misplaced for a bit, and perhaps, a short holiday, to venture out in the big wide world, and touch someone's heart, and actually look into a special person's eyes, and see if true love is to be found in a far away place . Perhaps, some sight-seeing would be a added bonus, for I have never stepped outside my borders for a holiday get-away, let alone to find a "real love" Maybe it would be an eye opener...That love was elsewhere, or right at my door-step...
What are your thoughts, could you leave your life behind you for a week or two? For a possible love connection, put your life on hold where you re-side, and take that chance, tha just maybe it would give you a whole new out-look on life???????
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"......Lovin' may be a mistake but it's worth makin'" Well, the whole song, really.
Don't not do what you want to do, in my opinion.
I have no Advice to give you, but as an International Tour Director for over 35 years.....I can only think of ONE case where a gal on one of my trips met someone and fell in love. They eventually married....he learned English and moved here to the US. No, the marriage didn't last....Who knows why.
Having been single for all these years, I understand what you say and possibly how you feel. While preserving my sanity and my upbeat outlook on life, I have traveled all over the world...to investigate and discover new things. A long distance love? who knows...actually, it's a bit frightening...simply because of what you have portrayed above. REAL love comes from constant companionship...not just chemistry across the room....that's just a start.!
Several months ago, a younger man, right here in town, convinced me to take a chance and discover. I, as you, did so. And, discovered that what he helped me to feel was, as you have stated...amazing. I cannot go back, and, after he quit his job, left town and disappeared off the face of this earth...without explanation...I WAS tempted to bash....until I realized the precious gift he gave me....And, he will never know!
Take your vacation, explore, but don't look so hard for that special someone that you forget to get the most out of what you are seeing. I truly believe your odds may be better in forums like these...or, even in the grocery store.
Well, I guess some of this WAS advice, after all. As someone who has been there, done that, I understand....and I wish you the best.
Sincerely,
Knittin Kitten
Judy
"Keepsakes"
I've found a little of myself in every love I've lost...
No one has ever left me without leaving a tender gift behind..
A deepening of feeling,
A widening of awareness,
A greater capacity for loving...
I'll bring them all to you someday and you'll bring gifts
of other loves to me, when we find each other, when we find
love as if for the first time.
Good luck on your journey, I wish you the very best in your pursuit of whatever it is you are seeking!
The Rose
What I have come to know though is this, the distance may have played some part in heightening the rush feeling one gets when one hadn't seen the other person in a while. In your case this person was playing with your innermost feelings. Why? She knew how you felt about her. All this time you were true to yourself, and to her, you were also leaving yourself up to be very hurt. That's what love does sometimes, and it hurts like hell.
In saying this though, I may add that it was better for you to have experience this, than not at all. cheers.