psychiatric disorder and dating

hi there i am always honest with the people i met maybe to honest i suffer from shyzofrenia from the age of 21 i am 46 now i dont see myself as mad only i litle different but when it commes to (dating) i hate the word i call it socialising people gets scared off ! i don't know why i am a nice guy very romantic and respectfull i am shure am not the only one with a psychiatrique background or problem i must admid i did somme wrong dowing in the past i talk about 20 years ago and i also tell that to the (few) personnes i meet wat should i do ? i have realy mutch love to give and if possible recieve a bit as well thats al that i am asking so people comme out with your (disorder) speak about it and dont be scared by someone that has a (disorder) whe are not monsters ! sorry for the poor english.
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I agree, we all have our own disorders to some degree or another, but do you really think this is the best approach? Not everyone understands the various disorders and their ramifications within the dating world.

I think it's best you keep it to yourself and let women get to know you a little bit first, show them that in many other positive ways, your just like all the other nice guys. Then if you find someone special and you want to take it to the romantic level then show and explain some of the medical things you have dealt with or are dealing with and they will be more apt to listen and understand.

I think the human race is still very ignorant in many respects. This is just an opinion and another perspective is all.

Good luck and God bless! angel wine grin
I agree with Rubendario because people form judgements quickly and if you start off the race with a limp you may not make it to first base. Unfortunately the word schizophrenia makes people nervous and they may not be open to getting to know you further unless they have gotten to know you as a person and are more open to accepting the bad with the good.

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Thank you calmheartseeks you understood me perfectly!!hug teddybear
Smitten, my post has nothing in it in regards to "being dishonest." As you get to know people, you tell others about your self on a need to know basis! That's not dishonesty!!grin
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