Red Flags!!

Hi'sssssss....love can be completely blind, especially when u have ur blinders on...but in saying that, i believe many relations that people walk into...do teach us alot on our journey to find that true love.and that real person and it makes us stronger and not weaker..but still it does sux. and totally agree also, that hurt should not be created at someone's expense....not kool.... sometimes i think we want to loved so bad, we overlook the redflags you talk about, ive done it, ive listened too much to my heart and my own needs rather than focusing on watz really going on.........but true love you find you and there are really good people out there, massage out the hurt and angry....have funnnnzzzzzz..but yes being guarded and protective is not a bad thing....and good for you to move on..... and thank god for family and friends...they are keeperssssss...good luk in ur travels..........


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It is nice to hear that you can move on. I to were like you.
The miniute I said yes to a proposill of marridge that person turned into some one I did not like.
at the time I decided to leave the relationship which was the best thing for me.

Learning lesons is some thing we will always do be it good or bad. But we do get stronger for them.
I am lucky now I have meet some one realy very nice. The journey to happyness is a long one some times. I was sorry to hear about your journey,, but there will be someone out there for you. Just keep looking and take your time.
good luck and a happy future with some one lovely for you.