Turns "on" and "off" on first date.

An hour straight?Just over a cup of coffee??It seems whoever your date was he was as interesting as a game of soccer without the ball.

My sympathies to you

Not just for first date, but for any date or even just hanging out with friends, people who play with their mobile phone endlessly irritate me.

Also, people who talk AT you rather than talk WITH you. Leaves my mind feeling like it has been under verbal assault for an hour or so.

I don't want to be the center of attention, but I think for the first date people need to give EACH OTHER some focus and attention - learn about each other.

If one of us is not interested then that is fine..just the way it goes.. I'd sooner be honest about it and either:
1)simply enjoy each others company and the place, or
2)go home and chill out

I certainly dont want to watch some selfish self-involved cow witter on and call her friends. What would make me want to see such a person again?

Also, anyone who thinks that the guy should pay. Of course I probably will! But anyone who thinks this is the guys obligation .. well i doubt I would want to feel obliged twice!

Turn ons.. someone who put in a little bit of effort. Someone who makes you think a little different. Someone sincere, open and fun. Someone who did not come for a roadmap or preconceived concept of how things will go.

It would depend on your interests. For me, if that happened

Would you have been happier if he spent an hour talking about women's shoes and how much he likes to buy them for his woman?


Sounds like he's not your guy. Move on.



Dr. Mike

umm ...

If I'm on a date with Condoleeza Rice, I guess she would enjoy it ...

Donno what your tastes are.

U know, what's a turn off for ya can be a turn on for someone else.

Depends much on your tastes.

Cheers.