Something I had forgotten

It amazes me to what lenghts a guy will go to to get what he wants from a woman.Weeks and months of sweet talk, little gifts, saying the right words ect...ect...Due to being married for 5 years and then working on putting my life in the right place,for the past two I have been out of the "dating" sene for quit some time and had forgot some of the basic rules of not trusting what a guy tells you.But then the question arises "what is the balance between not trusting anything and knowing what to trust?"I know enough to know if I dont trust anything said to me from a guy I could end up pushing that truly nice honest guy away.I know not all men are like this I just seem to have the misfortune of meeting all the ones who are.Anyway this is where I am at with things at the moment this is also the first time I have wrote a blog of any kind.So if you feel the need or want to make any comments please be kind.angel
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i always love to hear from you

and i comPLETELY understand what you are saying

it sux

my trust issues my instincts-
which is which...?


blogging is good for everyone-keep blogging

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Gurl, I am feeling ya!

Dating has become partly gut instinct and in my humble opinion takes the fun out of it.

Hang in there! You are not alone in meeting these kind of guys.
and keep blogging.....it's great for getting those feelings out.

~keeping you in my thoughts,

Sweetiegirlz
I totally understand what you're saying. The bad habits of a few make us not trust ALL men. But, there has to be a happy medium. We just have to be able to fine it......not easy to do. mumbling

Hang in there....keep trusting your instincts, keep your wits about you (you know you'll need them) and never loose your self respect.
professor I can totally relate to you. Hang in there. There has to be some real men out there. best to you!!!!
yeah men are pigs.
im gonna go watch The View.
I think you do have to give people benefit of doubt, as you say that one time you could miss out. Being sceptical is one thing and being receptive is another.
Well, a girl wants that from a guy. Sorry ladies but it might be just a misunderstanding, because I feel the same way about girls. I don't wanna say things I don't want to, but THEY will insist on keep hearing them.

An Example :

"Tell me I'm beautiful"
"How do I look"

So, it's more of a tricky game I really don't admire. That's why I waste my time in dating sites, although there are some really nice people out there.

Cheers applause
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