Fairytale Dreamer

I am afraid of it. Last time I gave it to someone they had taken it back and lied about what they had done. Should I ever give it to someone else, or is it okay to just remain in the little hope that I have of just being somewhat happy by myself?
Does it exist or is it socially acceptable to pass it off as just an everyday thing or a trite act?
Why do people just give up on it? If its the greatest gift you could ever have why do people constantly take it away? what makes everyone thing it should have conditions?
I am hanging in the balance of giving it to someone, but also living in fear that they couldn't or wouldn't try to take it?
Am I just a fairytale dreamer?