DO NICE GUYS FINISH LAST?

MY QUESTION IS TO WOMEN WHO FOR SOME STRANGE REASON THINK WHEN A MAN IS NICE TO HER ITS A SIGN OF WEAKNESS AND THEY ABUSE HIM FOR IT, AND YET HAVE NO PROBLEM TAKING CRAP OF MEN WHO TRAT THEM LIKE DIRT, WHY IS THIS?
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I dont think that nice guys finish last.....maybe u just havent met the right woman who deserves you! dunno
I have had the same problem. I tried being the bad boy type and it worked but it just wasnt me. Its like women get bored easily if you are too nice to them like they think the bad guy type is more exciting or something. Well I'm sure not all women think like that but some of them subconsciously find it more exciting if a guy is less of a pushover. I think if you are too nice also, you get taken for granted and get taken advantage of more.
Of course they do, just look at me you f$%$#^ $%#$%#$!!!
Obviously im joking man..!

I used to think that they do finish last, I don't know to be honest, but what helps me and I hope it helps you is to always look beyond stuff like that, if you meet a girl thats great, but if you dont it doesnt matter because if you enjoy your life and have fun and do the things you want to do then you can't ask for more really!

Just enjoy people, never be totally serious until its a two way thing, you'll know when(!), don't be a bad guy because those guys are that way for a reason, be yourself, be independant and enjoy yourself!

Take it easy man.
doh Id love to be able to answer this because Ive been attracted to some bad men in the past and Im still asking myself the same question!
Most of the nice guys I've met also tended to be wimps. They tended to lack a sense of adventure, were afraid to take a risk, couldn't make decisions, were socially awkward, and just kind of came across as nancy pansies. I think when a guy has a bit of a rough edge to his personality he comes across as more confident.

~ t
They only finish last if they keep looking at the wrong girls. If you are looking at women who enjoy being treated badly... and your a nice man... they'll never look at you. So start looking maybe at a nice woman, one who is together and would never allow herself to be treated bad. I bet you'll be surprised. I am always amazed how many nice men (I think) are with real b=tchs. whats up with that??confused
Wow there are really nice guys out there? Well maybe you are not looking in the right places because there are those of us that would rather be with someone nice then playing head games with bad ones.Just my thought.dunno
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