What is it that women want???
I have been on and off the site for sometime, ever since I upped and moved from UK to Spain, but seem to have lost the plot somewhat since.I meet many lovely women, as I am a very easy going happy guy, but alway feel that they arent getting from me, exactly what they hope.
I wish I could do a survey of any female on the site, gather up the information and be their perfect companion.
So, any ladies out there want to share the secrets of success, obviously the fact that your using the site isnt the best recommendation(only joking), but its a start... hopefully...
I know I am not alone in my 'missing the point' so to speak, but would be glad to hear from anyone, with helpful hints...
Lastly HAPPY NEW YEAR to all and sundry xxxx
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Most women would prefer to be sought after for who they are, not how closely they compare to media stereotypes.
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2- CONSCIENCE
3- COURAGE
OH AND YOUR PIC, SO WE COULD ACTUALLY RELATE TO YOU, WITH EMOTIONS AND THOUGHTS!!!
It's just great.
So here goes another one.
In my vast and near infinite experience with women...
(hey, I can hear you laughing)
I have found that most women desire 3 things.
#1 They want to be the princess. The damsel that is rescued. A woman wants to be more than just noticed, she wants to be pursued. She wants to know that her man is willing to fight for her. That he sees her as being worth him putting it on the line for her. She wants her man to be willing to defend her against all foes (including sometimes herself).
#2 She doesn't want to be bored. A woman craves an adventure to be a part of. She wants to be in some epic romance. Or, if that doesn't exactly work out for her, a small but moving romance. She does not want to just sit at home wondering what happened. She would like to get involved with a man that is into something bigger than himself. Something he might need a woman just like her for. It seems like women always go for the bad guy, but maybe they just go for the guy who is really into something. A man that lives dangerously. And living dangerously doesn't mean he is bad. He very well could be a good dangerous (Sir William Wallace). And a common mistake men make, is to assume that the woman is the adventrue. Guys, I know it seems like putting up with her is an adventure, but if that is all you have, she will get bored with you.
#3 She needs to be beautiful. She needs to know that she has something inside to offer her guy. A beauty to reveal only to her man. She is still the little girl that twirls infront of her father asking "am I pretty daddy?". Making it known to your lady that you think she is the most beautiful woman in the world will never steer you wrong. But you can't just say it, you have to SHOW her. And boy will she know if you don't really mean it (though I think some women sadly ingnore their instict for knowing this). You have to convince her. This is a must. No getting around it. And this is not just a one time and your through, it may be a once a day and your through if your lucky. But this is such a small price to pay if you really want to be with her.
One of the greatest things about most women is that the littlest things sometimes make the biggest difference. Reach for her hand first. If your walking through a crowd, guide her with your hand gently in that the small of her back. Buy her one single rose for no reason at all. Treat her to an impromtu slow dance while she is trying to clean something.
Unfortunately, the small things can go for good or bad.
All I can say is...
Good luck dude!
You can give them stability, love and everything they ask... won't be enough.
Of course, you can give them more... still won't be enough
I've became the Genie of a Bottle to please them in all ways... you know what... not enough yet.