Its a mystery...??

Wonder why when you spend a while chatting-mailing someone you get to like very much, and they say they like you very much too.., you share interests, life, passions, and talk about meeting...do they then just dissappear...? ? no mails..no contact nothing..!!.... (guess they could be married, but why chat for 6weeks, daily...?..anyone have any answers...? ...or am I just a dumb blonde...!
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Maybe he was just sitting at work and killing time.. very intrigued... did you send him a photo? Maybe that was it.... or maybe you wanted something he didn't and he wasn't man enough to tell you! There could be 1 million reasons...no reason to speculate
You are just a dumb blonde
yea...guess I am..!
yea..guess so, but I wont be making that mistake again..thankyou x
wait a minute.. he stopped writing to YOU? you must not be easy and he gave up... what a loser... If I were older, and in UK.. I'd buy you dinner for sure.
its natural bcoz we connected somewhere & somehow...
thankyou gonzo....xbouquet
You are 100% right, i also think this many times but i dont knw why i cant keep my self away from this. Although many ppl cliam that they will be there for you forever but still the next time they dont even bother to say you "HI". Why r ppl like that?
Hi Peachy

There's a lot of people around here who are not what they say they are.

If you are in regular contact with someone keep going back through your mail and look for the odd anomaly. Sooner or later they will slip up. Google up the weather or shops in their area and make comments or ask questions.

I found you've gotta keep one step ahead.

And trust no one.
It happens all the time on this site, and you aint no dumb blond
The answer is rather simple your not meant to chat online for 6 week's people get bored you either have nothing more to talk about with the person or have waited so long to meet up that they may just get fed waiting and move on, or get cold feet and decided to hide in there room. I remember i met someone we spoke for a long time online much longer than 6 weeks and when we met up it was a bit strange because we had nothing to say confused

Online dating should be used like speed dating find someone if you get along and talk alot in the first few days just jump right in and meet up, unless you suspect the person may or may not have a hobbie with include's knife's and people on dating website's.
It's a mystery to me, too, Peachy. Not only did I chat for hours on the phone, I went on two dates with a woman. I know all kinds of details of her life and was attracted to her. I think maybe she got scared that things were moving too quickly and bailed out. People are weird. It's nothing you did, and I'm sure you just were dealing with someone who was damaged in some way. Keep the faith. I love the UK women. I was there in November and found it was really easy to befriend the UK women.
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