am i

Well Im NOT one,but you never know your luck,there might be a couple of them around...YELL OUT !!!ANY SINGLE SHIELAS IN HERE ???

I put up a poll a while ago asking women how many men they were "dating" 0 , 1, 2, 4, or more than 4. and over 70% were at 0 if that helps.

Try writing something about yourself on your profile instead of encrypted icons.

Send out some flowers, say hello.

Just find some ladies to talk to......take it from there....see what happens.

Good luck and don't give up. Out of the umpteen billion folk in the world there may only be one for you. Thats an awful lot of looking.....

z

Hi amy

Maybe I am not a true romantic - I don't believe in "the one"

Have you ever been on a course at your work. Different folk from different departments and seen how a group mentality works?

Maybe a dozen strangers thrown together for 4 days. Whe you hit the dining room in a large canteen the group sticks together. Friendships are made with folk you would never have looked at a few days previously.

You are walking down the street and a beautiful woman is walking toward you.... Until you can talk to her, communicate, make her laugh...there is no difference to her and the beautiful Red Ferarri parked next to you on the street.

Once you start talking to folk and start to see there inner--self the outward looks become less important. Only there might you find the "one" or a "hundred"

z

I've found that women on this site are only here to blog. It is not accurate to call this site a 'dating site', as it seems the women here are not remotely interested in dating.

Which brings up the age-old question - what the hell do they want from us?