Another Public Apology

Hello all. I’m sorry for being such an a**hole lately. I didn’t think I was capable of being an a** but someone here said yes you’re being an a** so I apologize. I would blame how my life is going at the moment but that isn’t a good excuse. There’s no reason for me to flip out at anyone here. You all are just voicing your opinion. I’m sorry. I was going to delete my profile but that’s not very mature either. I would be doing it for the wrong reasons. I only want to delete it if I’ve met someone. I want to do what Jack Dawson said in Titanic, 1997 and just learn to take life as it comes at me. That’s very sound advice in my opinion. Omg I love that advice! I did delete some blogs that I thought were “assholy” blogs. Lol. So if you commented on them I’m sorry your comment was deleted automatically. I know commenting takes time and effort. Thank you for doing so nevertheless and for putting up with me.

Here’s to more positive blogging in the future with you all. wine
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try not to let the world change you, or you will be trying forever to figure out who you are.
Hi Marlin. It’s cool that you’re in Canada. I met a man from Canada once. He was here on a business trip. I asked so how do you like the US? He said meh it’s okay. A bit of a culture shock for me. I myself would like to visit Canada someday.
You're too kind with this blog. Somebody of cs told you something and you listened?
To be kinder to this gang here who half of them don't even show a face
and most never will ever date again, cos "they don't need nobody" and all that insanity.
Lol that must have been a chick by the way! No man here would tell you to calm down.

I prefer the honest straight up you.

It's blogs, when people gonna understand what a blog is supposed to be hmm?
Some honest truth telling, is what it's supposed to be, some actual report from your own personal observations in life.
And then these azzholes who have NOTHING to say themselves try tell you have to talk, feel or bahave.
They can shut their piehole.

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Love.

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Hi Oz. I appreciate that. Yes it was a woman that told me that. laugh Unfortunately this is a public space and I have to be a bit more cordial by default. But perhaps I can find a happy middle ground someday. I find I have to do that with everyone in life including public spaces. Especially public spaces I should say.

Thanks for always being here. hug
Mer...
Cheer up...
About dating...
Hey there is an app...this is funny...wine
No need to apologise for showing owns emotions and having feelings Mermaidhair.hug
Daphne I totally agree with Drew about the job thing lol. If you can work you better be working! Lol. But if SHE can’t get a man, I don’t know if I can! She has it all!
Thank you, German. hug
""Hello all. I’m sorry for being such an a**hole lately...""

No need to apologize

Just don't be hairy too

rolling on the floor laughing
Stay the way you are mermaid, I like honesty anytime. .............handshake
Well I wouldn't rely on accuracy on that dating app... wow
At least I hope not... uncertain
Cheers...
Hi mer. You can't please all the people all the time. Just continue to be self sufficient but sociable, tolerant to a degree and nice when you can. Advice you get is an option to be considered, your choice. Your needs come first but flexibility is good. There is a saying "be the wind" but for me that is too flexible.
Another saying is that "happiness comes from within".
All the best. wave
Gang?

You mean the disgusting gang you participated in so don't start this gang crap as there isn't any gang now that you were a part of for a long time

So it's insanity when people aren't needy & desperate like yourself desperate to be in a relationship

You must have way too much time on your hands Too much time Lonely & desperate

Your so desperate to be liked you don't dare to be honest with Mer because you would rather see the lady get hurt telling the lady what you think she wants to hear all for the sake of you being liked & then you have the hide to try & spin it that those who have an opinion whom aren't into being desperate to be liked are in a gang & insane for not being interested in being in a relationship

If you can't be real with Mer then that explains why you will always be single

Be a real friend to Mer for her own safety because being a real friend isn't about sucking up ones arse to be liked

Unlike you
To Mer no need for apologies my opinions on the internet are no different to my opinions when it comes to face to face moments with my friends here in the real world I'm simply not a fan of men gaslighting & playing games with woman Nor am I fan of woman playing games with men i just can't lie knowing that person could end up getting sucked in & taken for a ride by a person of the opposite sex Take real good care of yourself
Saw this and thought of you Mermaidhair hug



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Well thanks for your advice Merc. I want the best for you, I actually do.
You can get out of this web as well. I sometimes feel you and me should had been together even, but it's a tad risky business so to speak as both are sensitive folk; some feelings could get hurt along the way and that. But even If I am not available and you are not available to me, we can both find happiness elsewhere. Yes I am a tad desperate, true. Cos time is running out you see. But to be liked is not it, not really. But being able to speak my mind freely is important to me, and the ones I like on here I wanna help and support. I see similar tendencies in you. And that is fine and makes sense. I love you. That is the truth and no mean words can change it. You may think I'm joking here but I'm not. hug
Ehhh...WTF...

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Seeking a serious Protestant Christian man in California only for adventures and lifelong marital bliss. I’m kinda shy, kinda quiet, kinda serious. I mainly love to read, go to the gym, and play piano. [read more]

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