Life Update(s) and Bringing My A Game
I’ve come to the inevitable conclusion that I’m not going to find my other half in life. So I’m going to make arrangements with an Italian man in LA to “blow off steam” so to speak. I found him on a discreet site. Well he found me and threw me a like. May as well pick a man I want to do that with…the very best. He is the very best.The thing is though is that I post my best photos online. I’m not gonna look like that at a drop of a hat. It takes time to look good so I’m hoping he doesn’t say can I see you right now?? I always dread that question. The last time that happened the guy said you look nothing like your picture. I told him I told you I’m not made up. I have no makeup on. Before he could respond he deleted me. So I dread it.
I want to do this before I get too old and have no libido left. I don’t know what will happen in the future. It’s possible that I won’t even care about it anymore and I dread that too.
So thanks Luke for telling me to just do it. I agree with you. It’s gonna pass me by and I’ll regret it. The years are going by fast now. Might as well do it before I can’t get men that are perfect 10s anymore. He’s 45 and a perfect 10. Man he’s gorgeous.
In other news, I have a big interview coming up for a medical assisting position. I actually can’t wait for it because the sooner it happens the quicker I will find out if I’m hired or not. I will take interviewing suggestions down below. And no they’re not male so I can’t use my sex appeal. Lol.
But if I get hired I will be celebrating with Mr. Mambo Italiano.
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Comments (12)
I'm 61 and my libido is fine. It differs in some people but keep looking for the right man to fall in love with. I have never been married nor have children. I have been on the site since 2005, but I keep hope alive.
I hope things work out for you.
And the worse part is people keep telling me I’m single by choice. No I’m not! Shut up! Stop saying that! That’s really what I want to tell them to their face. I wish I was married with one kid right now. Single by choice my a**.
It's difficult to find someone long term. We all have expectations of what we want and what we will bring to a relationship. I believe in today's society everyone is in a rush. A better approach maybe you should seek is go slow, date a few guys here and there, and find out if you can mesh with someone. You are still young enough to take your time and use patience.
In the meantime, go with what makes you happy. Find someone you want to have "fun" with. There's nothing wrong with that. It's your life and you need to live the happiest life you can. BTW, anyone who tells you to fix something about yourself is not worth listening to. You have the power to be who you want to be.
Get out in the real world as the vast majority are only online to play
There's a song that sez: Girls just wanna have fun. Or something like that. Have fun.
One very wise person once told me that if a person could tell stories of when one was younger proves that one had lived a life, and believe you me when I say that I have many stories, both good and bad.
Hey.. I remember once you said: "I know I can’t reverse the age thing but I’m working on the weight thing to at least recover some of my looks."
So why don't you just keep working on that one. But do it for yourself. Once you are successful, others will eventually see the "recovery" as well.