feel guilty :(

Rejecting a guy can be a sensitive matter for me sigh I feel so bad and guilty after i did it (few days ago)... and the worse thing he's become nicer to me blues the more he smile the more i feel sad

he is very nice guy and i think he will be good husband , but i dont love him at all moping

its ironic , i rejected someone when i need someone to love crying
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if there is no attraction that is not your fault, dont feel guilty for being honest, it will be better for both of you in the long run. ide rather have someone reject me honestly then lead me on and tell me it was a lie down the road.
Don't feel bad. Your honest and that's ok. You have the right to choose the one to be with.
I totally agree with everyone who posted before me.
If it's must,rather reject him with "we are just friend/penpal no more"
So you would not feel guilty and he would not feel crying
The key is only love, no matter how good he is or perfect he is to you as a good husband.. but if you don't love him... dunno
but I know one thing.. Love can learn.
if you want to learn to love and both of you want to be patience. I think you both can try..
I wish you good luck hug
I agree with JL ~ you don't fall in love but rather grow in love! Big difference. Infatuation & covetousness precede love. yay peace
Hello El wave hug
JL ~ wave wow hug banana wink
you did the right thing, letting him down gently, and if he is still being nice, he understands too, he might still hold out hope, but at least he knows where he stands, comfort
wine thanks ya'll , i feel so much better now bouquet
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