Love or Companionship

Okay at my age I can't say I know too much about love except for my family.

We say we love our best friends and mothers...etc,but I am not trying to discuss that.

I find that everyone is looking for love in some sort of way,but I'm not too sure why I am...Why are you?

Is it the thought of being connected to another soul or the human need just to not feel alone and distant from another? I have seen friends and family find themselves in love..and at first it's very nice but then I have seen and heard of the ugly sides.
I have a sister who's boyfriend's childhood friend fell head over heals with a girl,who he too care of in all ways. This story touched me because the girl was homeless before...and he helped her....anyway she left him eventually and he was on a one way bus to the mental hospital for suicidal behavior.
I have seen many crash and burn relationships and now myself am looking for 'love'. It's scary because it's like skittles and you never know what you get.
Should i be looking for companionship just some one's who there and you still get the connection...in the end what's the difference?

None! Even in friends with benefits or mistress relationships whatever ones you an think of someone gets hurt!!

But me i feel it's better to have loved than never to have loved before because in the end the risk is what we were made and pushed to talk and plunge into another's love because even if love ends the true emotion never truly goes but in the end love or companionship i say just give me emotion and whatever you call it lets fall in love!
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You are but in the Spring of your life......I am in my Autumn....so from experience I say...learn to love yourself....and once you are there...you will discover the rest comes easy.....good luck..

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Infatuation is loving the person you think is the person. That goes away when you realize the person is nothing like your dream.

Love or Companionship, go for companionship. If the person is your friend and you get along then why no be with that person?
love is not something you just find in your travels, although it is something that is "findable". it is self discovered right in you wherever you are and wherever you go. that is the personally responsible side, cultivating and nurturing the inner you and being accountable for your own happiness. and then there is the companionship side like you said, that allows you to take that love you've developed for yourself to a level of discovery you could not achieve alone. because love is more so than anything else, something you exercise towards someone or something be it yourself, your family and friends, or God. now if you're thinking more along the lines of "getting busy", it has never proved love and never will. so you won't find it there, although it can be found there with the right person at the right time. Hey! don't even worry, yes you can be loved and no, it does not have to be scary! and yes true love can and will span any distance, even time. that is called trust and sacrifice.
though i know very little about it myself, i too have my questions Skittles...take care.
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