#3-love vrs trust

Now this blog is only my opinion ok, i don't know if i can speak for others but, it seems that trust in a relationship comes in many forms. sometimes its already there from the beginning, or earned through a period of time. in the matters of love i think it goes hand in hand, now i believe that its hard to love someone you don't trust, in that regard you should either give that person a chance to prove themselves trustworthy or end it because damaged trust can put a huge strain on any relationship. Now in some relationships you would work to earn trust and then work to earn love then continue to work to keep it all, and some people can make it hard, especially the ones with TRUST ISSUES, yeah you know who you are. Now trust issues is something that's hard to break through in the one you want to be with, your up against a bad rep from the start, like what the ex did or others did like "oh she scammed me and took everything i had" or he cheated on me and hurt me" but people the point is, misunderstandings and mistakes happen, especially in a relationship. If someone you care about damages your trust then you have steps you can take, like first determining if it was a "misunderstanding" or not, cause it happens, i suggest communication and understanding is the key, work it out. Or if its a mistake (because we all do and say dumb things and make stupid decisions)decide weather you can forgive and move on. Now those of you with trust issues, your not gonna give anyone a fair shot from the start unless you come to terms with your past. You can get anyone to warm your bed, but real love is rare so if you have someone that's good to you and makes you happy, please learn to trust them as well as love them because like i say "love and trust go hand in hand", and i don't want to be with anyone who has trouble trusting me..