Someone Special

Hi Alex,well I'm really sorry about this girl,if she cant to accept the fact,you dont love her anymore,so I dont think its your problem.I wonder why she need to know"why".If somebody leaving you,dont ask hem"why",I think that question just make the situation more bad for both of you.The only advise I can give you,its:go on on your way.I know its cruel and hard,but we have only one life and we must live it and yes,is heapend someone to be hurt sometimes,but we all are hurt by some reason..so I dont see why you should be sad,because of girl,who dont want to let you be happy.And by the way,I saw your profile and your picks:)I like it:),take care,kisses.

There are different kinds of love... and I'm sure deep inside you still love her but are not in love with her. She needs closure - so try to give that to her. Explain that there will always be a part of you that loves her but that you are not in love with her any longer.

Take to the time to try to explain that to her. In the long run she'll respect you more for it - and you yourself.

Best of luck

Sometimes we all need to know why but sometimes its hard to really know why . You have been honest with her sometimes relationships run out of steam and its as simple as that . In the end we all look back to previous relationships and if we are honest in our reflections we know that they had run their course and that sometimes we stayed longer than we shouldve but we just didnt know how to finish for fear of hurting the other person BUT if we live a life with no pain then how can we truly experience joy and happiness . It will be hard even though you know its for the best I hope that you get through it If you speak from a place of truth that is all anyone can expect Good Luck

I agree with some of the advice but maybe she needs to know why for closure. Maybe she want's to learn so she wont make the same mistake. I think you owe her that much, then she can move on and you can forget about it.