Dating sites and other rants/raves.

Some dating sites I've tried are truly humorous. One asks you to pay for a 1 day trial, a free trial they say! They ask for a credit card to verify age...wrong pal! That's a scam! Don't fall for it. Another sites wants you to pay to see who has viewed you, please. I would venture to say that all pay sites are a huge waste of money, unless they offer a money back guarantee or extend your membership 3 months. I have to hand to the women however for being very brave to even post their picture(s). If we men were all blind, it wouldn't matter. But we are not. My personal feeling is that men are pre-programmed and or hard wired to seek out beauty. So it's more of a primal thing rather than a social one. I'm sure I'll hear it about this topic. Beauty means many things, on a primal level way way back.

It meant she was in good health and would produce healthy offspring, not to mention good looking kids. Some men get tired of the chase and just settle for any woman. Some men pursue the beauty and suffer the fallout. I don't understand the 'fake' pictures women post (men too), it would be hard to fool someone in person. Inner beauty is subjective at best, not to mention hard to see. It would take quite awhile to see inner beauty, months or years. I make no apologies for seeking out beauty. If I like what I see, I'm going to pursue it. Some of the headlines I've seen: Waiting for my knight in shining armor( a fantasy at best), where have all the sexy men gone? (they exist, you may have to look harder). Where have all the good ones gone?(Howard Stern once said: Honey, if you wanted a good man you would have found one by now. Clearly you don't seek out good men.). Probably true.

I have been shocked to see so many unmarried women with children, amazing. It makes me wonder what women really want. I wanted children when I was 18. Never happened, it seems I am being denied that pleasure. Love and companionship seem to be elusive as well, I am afraid to totally be forthcoming because I seem to have this 'sense' that tells me what's next. 99% of the time I am right about someone, not a hunch, hard to describe what it may be. Second site perhaps. I keep seeing these 'friends' lists and it's disturbing. I would keep that private ladies if I were you. You may be sending all kinds of wrong signals, I get them so there is something to it. It's very difficult to find someone as it is without throwing a lot of competition in a guy's way. I make no pretenses in my profile, no friends list, no fake pictures. Just simple and to the point.