How far would you travel for love/Is there a dista
So im a single young woman from Jamaica. This site is great by the way, meet some very interesting persons.But my problem is that all( and i mean all) of the men I meet tells me that the distance between them and myself is too much. Like WTH
This is a big problem for me personally. Im not rushing into anything, but what if I find 'him' but the diatance is a problem for him. I have no problem travelling for love, but what if he isnt willing. Does that say to me ( hey hes not interested)
Is this distance thing really such a big deal as most persons makes it seems, or is it really a big deal?
What are your views????
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If love is true nd loyal.
Then no distance no boundaries.
If anyone do not willing to relocate.
Then it's fake.
In my view.
At 34 years of age, when I thought it was way past time to meet someone and have a family, I travelled 7,000 km to plant myself in a country where I thought would make that happen: to meet someone right for me. I came to Poland. So I do not see distance as a problem.
Still, I would not be traveling the world on love junkets either. When I came to this new place, I decided to settle.
So I am on this site now. If there were someone here who proved to be a serious interest to me, then distance would not be the main obstacle. I would expect the person to visit me if only to get a feeling of the culture I have been living in the past 15 years. And I would visit her. But, for me, the discussions would have to have progressed to a serious stage and over the course of time (a long time for some) before travel would occur. No, I would not turn away the right person because of distance.
That’s my perspective.
You can only get to know someone, by, spending time with them,
when you say distance, are you talking an hours drive, two hour drive ?