AM I MAD,PLEASE HELP!!!
a year ago,something horrid happenened to me and hopin my ex who had become a good friend did not support me instead supported the perosn who hurt me who he had known only for 6mths.i had 3 yr fiendship with my ex..recently i started textin him,we havent mentioned the horrid past jus bein friendly.i said is this mad to b textin and not talkin,he said that was my decision 2 end it??????????????????should i just stop this...i still care for him but he wasnt ther for me when i wanted it the most. should i let go.please help.he only works 2 doors up from me...........
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If nothing has changed, it is hard to stop loving old flames, but you need someone you can trust for a real relationship and to protect your heart. As he was not there for you when you truly needed him, he didn't really care for you then. We support and protect those we love.
You need to talk about this matter with him and understand what happened, be assured things will be different as he apologizes for failing you, or you will be taking a very big chance on further hurt. Even then it is just words until they are proven. At this point, he doesn't seem to know why it ended, not a good sign for his sensitivity to you.
Bottom line: you won't be able to push this under the rug.
Talk to him.
Avoid to remember the past while talking to him, then May God bless you and Guide you to get back your happiness
and if he wasn't there for you when you needed it the most....
Will he be there for you the next time ?
That's the questions to answer.
And you'll have yours.
good luck
Do not depend on those around you for your happiness,sadness or support.
All theses things lie within you.
If you relay on YOU.....You won't be let down.
Resentment is a disease of the heart!
Take care...Am here for YOU!
J.D
Trust is the foundation of all good relationships, without it there is no relationship...Stop texting him, seriously...men always want something they can't have...