My previous relationships have been with women i've got to know through work or social occasions (pub, sports club ect)and so i knew a bit about them before we started dating.
The main thing for me is i have to like them, sounds pretty simple i know but when you start dating first impressions really do count.
If she is late, not made an effort or is more interested in sharing her woes it's a bit of a turn off. But if shes witty, smiley and easy to talk to, then its great.
Looks aren't that important. If you find someone you get on well with, the worse that will happen is you have a new friend!
RE: AM I MAD,PLEASE HELP!!!
just move on. he will only hurt you again and you deserve better