moveing (15)

Mar 9, 2009 8:11 PM CST moveing
ktulucherrylane
ktulucherrylanektulucherrylaneMolong, New South Wales Australia2 Threads 45 Posts
im wondering if people would move closer to someone to get to know them better..you can only know so much about a person on line.whats the opinion of cs users??
Mar 9, 2009 8:24 PM CST moveing
Ralf74
Ralf74Ralf74Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia44 Threads 2 Polls 4,241 Posts
I think there are a lot of variables but you would at least have to have some lenghty visits first and make sure that you can get along in the long run. A life is a big thing to uproot especially if you have kids or an established career so it should be done so with a lot of thought and consideration.
Mar 9, 2009 8:32 PM CST moveing
ktulucherrylane
ktulucherrylanektulucherrylaneMolong, New South Wales Australia2 Threads 45 Posts
Ralf74: I think there are a lot of variables but you would at least have to have some lenghty visits first and make sure that you can get along in the long run. A life is a big thing to uproot especially if you have kids or an established career so it should be done so with a lot of thought and consideration.


that is always on my mind..i have my son liveing with me but not the job..the town i live in is a small place,very friendly people evrywhere but there is nothing around here really.i have done it once before but things blew up after 8 months and im back ere again.
Mar 9, 2009 8:40 PM CST moveing
Ralf74
Ralf74Ralf74Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia44 Threads 2 Polls 4,241 Posts
ktulucherrylane: that is always on my mind..i have my son liveing with me but not the job..the town i live in is a small place,very friendly people evrywhere but there is nothing around here really.i have done it once before but things blew up after 8 months and im back ere again.


I was facing the same dilema but it is on the backburner again now. I have my 3 boys and same thing, I live in a smallish town where everyone knows everyone (actually i am related to half of them, that is why I am on here!! laugh )and they all know your business. I wouldn't mind moving but if things don't work out, I don't want to be stuck somewhere I don't know anyone or have anything but then again if you never, never go............you know the rest! roll eyes
Mar 9, 2009 8:42 PM CST moveing
ktulucherrylane
ktulucherrylanektulucherrylaneMolong, New South Wales Australia2 Threads 45 Posts
Ralf74: I was facing the same dilema but it is on the backburner again now. I have my 3 boys and same thing, I live in a smallish town where everyone knows everyone (actually i am related to half of them, that is why I am on here!! )and they all know your business. I wouldn't mind moving but if things don't work out, I don't want to be stuck somewhere I don't know anyone or have anything but then again if you never, never go............you know the rest!


thats right..you only live once .live life to the edge but dont fall off!!!! friends dont take long to make.. oh and hello again to ralf....ready for another round at the bar later hahahaha
Mar 9, 2009 8:47 PM CST moveing
Ralf74
Ralf74Ralf74Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia44 Threads 2 Polls 4,241 Posts
ktulucherrylane: thats right..you only live once .live life to the edge but dont fall off!!!! friends dont take long to make.. oh and hello again to ralf....ready for another round at the bar later hahahaha


moping only one round!! laugh you better be up for more than that, hehe! wink
Mar 9, 2009 8:48 PM CST moveing
ktulucherrylane
ktulucherrylanektulucherrylaneMolong, New South Wales Australia2 Threads 45 Posts
Ralf74: only one round!! you better be up for more than that, hehe!


always but it would be round 2 ...round one was the other night on the bar and pool tables hehehehehe
Mar 9, 2009 8:54 PM CST moveing
Ralf74
Ralf74Ralf74Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia44 Threads 2 Polls 4,241 Posts
ktulucherrylane: always but it would be round 2 ...round one was the other night on the bar and pool tables hehehehehe


smitten mmmm, Cherry!! love
Mar 9, 2009 9:32 PM CST moveing
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
Ralf74: I was facing the same dilema but it is on the backburner again now. I have my 3 boys and same thing, I live in a smallish town where everyone knows everyone (actually i am related to half of them, that is why I am on here!! )and they all know your business. I wouldn't mind moving but if things don't work out, I don't want to be stuck somewhere I don't know anyone or have anything but then again if you never, never go............you know the rest!



Correct......Nothing ventured.....Nothing Gained.....thumbs up comfort handshake
Mar 9, 2009 9:59 PM CST moveing
InkedHeart
InkedHeartInkedHeartWhangarei, Northland New Zealand4 Threads 880 Posts
ktulucherrylane: im wondering if people would move closer to someone to get to know them better..you can only know so much about a person on line.whats the opinion of cs users??


YES i would, YES you're right and NO opinions .. sorry comfort


rolling on the floor laughing my typical response


good luck ktulu hug
Mar 9, 2009 11:12 PM CST moveing
ktulucherrylane
ktulucherrylanektulucherrylaneMolong, New South Wales Australia2 Threads 45 Posts
InkedHeart: YES i would, YES you're right and NO opinions .. sorry my typical response good luck ktulu




thanks inkedthumbs up you goin to the kizzys later..might be some fun once ralf and me arrive heheheh
Mar 9, 2009 11:24 PM CST moveing
InkedHeart
InkedHeartInkedHeartWhangarei, Northland New Zealand4 Threads 880 Posts
ktulucherrylane: thanks inked you goin to the kizzys later..might be some fun once ralf and me arrive heheheh


sorry i won't be there but have fun cheering
Mar 10, 2009 7:18 AM CST moveing
OilAndRoses
OilAndRosesOilAndRosesGold Coast, Queensland Australia2 Threads 13 Posts
ktulucherrylane: im wondering if people would move closer to someone to get to know them better..you can only know so much about a person on line.whats the opinion of cs users??


I think it depends on how far you are willing to travel? 1 hour, 6? 12?

What are u leaving behind in sense of family support, friends, lifestyle?

I have done it before but I tell you it was hard work.
Mar 10, 2009 7:39 AM CST moveing
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia106 Threads 6 Polls 7,413 Posts
Hi Cherry as Ralf said I think to seriously concider relocating their would have to be a firm commitment of hearts , for me my family come first, my job sercurity independence is not something i can afford to squander ive worked too hard to get where i am & after being once left in a situation where i had nothing i will never be co dependant again.
If i could get work my family was happy to do it I may but it would be after a long time together .
Kizzy
Mar 10, 2009 8:08 AM CST moveing
blondeaozichick
blondeaozichickblondeaozichickMelbourne, Victoria Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 4,392 Posts
ktulucherrylane: im wondering if people would move closer to someone to get to know them better..you can only know so much about a person on line.whats the opinion of cs users??


I wouldn't move closer to 'get to know' them .. what if you moved closer and found out you didn't like them much after all? uh oh

I suppose if you loved the person its a viable option but for me it wouldn't even be considered until my youngest son finishes yr 12 and has made up his mind what he wants to do after it and both my boys are ok with it and are doing ok and not having a bad patch.

Now my kids are older I could move and my job I can do anywhere so none of those things already discussed by others are a real issue for me .. its whether I would want to ... If I was to move it would be because I need a change or I want to live somewhere different.. it wouldn't be specifically for a guy

but in saying all that.. its highly unlikely I will meet someone I would be willing to do that for ... I'm not that trusting .. laugh
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