The ex is at it!!! ( Archived) (6)

Jun 21, 2006 10:28 PM CST The ex is at it!!!
bashfullyblonde
bashfullyblondebashfullyblondeBremerton, Washington USA2 Threads 5 Posts
Ok so the ex talks to my teen and tells him to make any man that might come into my life hightail it by hating him and being mean. Well hell that isn't fair one bit! What should I do? Keep any possibilities away from him? Phew this is gonna be a relationship killer is it not.
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Jun 21, 2006 11:02 PM CST The ex is at it!!!
starliteisbrite
starliteisbritestarliteisbriteThe planet earth....:), Ontario Canada56 Threads 7,327 Posts
Have a chat with the ex and tell him to grow up.

As for your son,you need to have a heart to heart with him,and let him honestly know whats going on with mom,and that he is,and will always be number one to you,but like him,you need time for yourself.Let hime know your "dating",not having anyone move in.

Best of luck to ya.
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Jun 21, 2006 11:05 PM CST The ex is at it!!!
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
Great advice, Cherie.
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Jun 21, 2006 11:18 PM CST The ex is at it!!!
dad11months
dad11monthsdad11monthsLas Vegas, Nevada USA28 Threads 213 Posts
you said it the best cherie..
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Jun 21, 2006 11:33 PM CST The ex is at it!!!
TeddyBear101
TeddyBear101TeddyBear101Adelaide, Australia11 Threads 83 Posts
Id say starliteisbrite is right.
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Jul 8, 2006 12:10 AM CST The ex is at it!!!
Mystic2Canadian
Mystic2CanadianMystic2CanadianChatham, Ontario Canada15 Posts
It should be your son that tells your ex to grow up and speak up on your behalf. He's asking your son to make you unhappy and spy on you, and I am sure that is the last thing your son wants in your life.

If they still have a close relationship (your ex and your son) then there is got to be some boundries set...meaning your son does not get involved with your personal affairs with your ex. And if your ex has a problem with that then he shouldn't be allowed to see your son (unless he's the father). Because your ex is trying to keep a book open that you already shut, and it's unhealthy for your family if this keeps going on.
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