HJFinAZ: Maybe it is because when we are "hurt" when another leaves we are actually being very selfish. And people say they want their partners to be happy..
If we truly wanted them to be happy, we would not be, say & do hurtful things when they leave..
I see a broken heart as a good thing after you have it. It shows you exposed your heart. It shows you cared for someone. It shows you are human and have feelings. Like all things in life it is how we handle the experience that is most important. We see so many people here on the internet who have shut down their emotions for fear of hurting the heart again. You must risk everything in order to gain love. Pain is the side effects of a failed try. Try we must! Try over and over until the love works.
i still can't stand to see my ex with her new squeeze . i dunno hard to explain it's like every emotion you have breaking thru a dam . im sorry if that makes no sense .
adamisk: i still can't stand to see my ex with her new squeeze . i dunno hard to explain it's like every emotion you have breaking thru a dam . im sorry if that makes no sense .
i dont think its about his/her new squeez,if you loved and lost it hurts,if your 17 to 77 or older,if you dont hurt you dont feel,and you dont know what you had unless you lost it(some people get guys/girls as easy as breathing)but never know real love,because it comes to easy.and its so easy to throw it away, when you get it easy(yet so hard to find it for those that love the most)so often love seems to be for those who are handsome/gorgeous and for them its so short time(and on to the next)cos its so easy for them.there have been broken hearts for all time and sadly will be always(thats life)fergus from ireland.
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