spicey1: If my profile did not clearly say...I am no longer looking it probably wouldnt bother me as much, but that is still a lot of messages in 20 minutes time!
That is alway going to be an issue when you are on a dating site. Guys are going to assume you are wishing to date.
spicey1: I put in my profile that I am no longer looking. And one person in particular is constantly messaging me.....3 or 4 within 20 minutes. Why?? It's not like it was a response to a thread or anything ...NOPE just a bunch of "lets chat" spam!
Do people really read profiles?
I have my profile the same way..."not looking" here for "friends and hang out", etc...and yet, I get IM requests from the same men several times a week. And my IM is off...they'll never get to IM with me. And some are blocked.
I've learned to say it's their problem, not mine, Spicey.
Big_John: That is alway going to be an issue when you are on a dating site. Guys are going to assume you are wishing to date.
Yeah I suppose but I know I am not the only one who is here just for the forums. I enjoy posting and I have met some great people, but I am no longer looking.
spicey1: I put in my profile that I am no longer looking. And one person in particular is constantly messaging me.....3 or 4 within 20 minutes. Why?? It's not like it was a response to a thread or anything ...NOPE just a bunch of "lets chat" spam!
spicey1: I put in my profile that I am no longer looking. And one person in particular is constantly messaging me.....3 or 4 within 20 minutes. Why?? It's not like it was a response to a thread or anything ...NOPE just a bunch of "lets chat" spam!
Big_John: Damn another rule to live by. I have to know how to read now. I wish you women would settle down and stop having so many procedures for me to learn.
I read profiles but let's face it the ones that don't read profiles aren't going to say they don't and even more likely they are not going to post on this forum. Many people my age from my area don't even hang out in the forums.
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That is alway going to be an issue when you are on a dating site. Guys are going to assume you are wishing to date.