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Jun 28, 2006 5:56 PM CST whats a guy to do?
doug_344
doug_344doug_344grand rapids, Michigan USA33 Threads 365 Posts
WOW, just had a really messed up thing happen to me.. here is the messege..


me:dont know what i did. but if you decide to start talking to me again you know were to find me. hope everything is good with you..

her:hey doug?? you know, you didn't DO anything. Not everything is always about you and it gets really annoying when you think so. If you're going to send me IM's like this, please don't even bother.

me: well, i tried saying hi and talking to you and was being ignored so i was curious.. but never mind i wont bother . its always been all about you so have a nice life!!

think i might have over reacted?confused
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Jun 28, 2006 5:59 PM CST whats a guy to do?
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
Doug' without knowing the history of your communication with her, I wouldn't know what to say. Paws
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Jun 28, 2006 6:05 PM CST whats a guy to do?
tampa1
tampa1tampa1London, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,057 Posts
Hard to say Doug, I have to agree with Leo on this one..I do know that things can get mixed up when chatting..
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Jun 28, 2006 6:08 PM CST whats a guy to do?
catwm
catwmcatwmSomewhere in the middle, Florida USA48 Threads 6,683 Posts
This is all of the messenger conversation?

Are there some events that happened prior to this?




If she has not been contacting you on a regular basis, I would have to say she does not seem anxious to pursue anything with you.




Childish aren't we?
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Jun 28, 2006 6:09 PM CST whats a guy to do?
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
What was the nature of your conversations with her, fun stuff, life in general ? Paws
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Jun 28, 2006 6:11 PM CST whats a guy to do?
tampa1
tampa1tampa1London, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,057 Posts
Sounds like some miscommunication, I would give it some time and ask her what is bothering her. It's probably something you are unaware of..
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Jun 28, 2006 6:13 PM CST whats a guy to do?
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
Tampa, you just summed up so many relationships. Paws
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Jun 28, 2006 6:13 PM CST whats a guy to do?
catwm
catwmcatwmSomewhere in the middle, Florida USA48 Threads 6,683 Posts
I have cleaned up my messenger list of contacts at times.


Accidently deleted a few that I had not meant to. If that was the case and she felt upset about it, just be honest and tell her you are still interested in keeping the communication open.
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Jun 28, 2006 6:15 PM CST whats a guy to do?
Assets52
Assets52Assets52Littleton, New Hampshire USA125 Threads 2,174 Posts
It has been my experience on this site, when emails stop it is generally because they have found someone else more interesting.
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Jun 28, 2006 6:16 PM CST whats a guy to do?
iledefrance
iledefranceiledefranceMontréal, Quebec Canada5 Threads 489 Posts
When communication problems like that start, it doesn't look too promising. I would invest my time and effort somewhere else if I was you.
Unless you and her had something really great going on already. dunno
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Jun 28, 2006 6:18 PM CST whats a guy to do?
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
All of the above. Paws
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Jun 28, 2006 6:18 PM CST whats a guy to do?
doug_344
doug_344doug_344grand rapids, Michigan USA33 Threads 365 Posts
we worked together, did things with the kids together, tried to help her whenever she needed it.. hell, i left my job when she became the boss just so it didnt ruine our friendship.some of my early threads when i was looking for advice were about her..
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Jun 28, 2006 6:19 PM CST whats a guy to do?
catwm
catwmcatwmSomewhere in the middle, Florida USA48 Threads 6,683 Posts
Doug, dont feel bad, I have had some drop off the planet.



Wonder if they are with those lost socks?
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Jun 28, 2006 6:20 PM CST whats a guy to do?
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
Now it's getting complicated. Phone her and clear the air. Paws
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Jun 28, 2006 6:23 PM CST whats a guy to do?
iledefrance
iledefranceiledefranceMontréal, Quebec Canada5 Threads 489 Posts
Good idea
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Jun 28, 2006 6:23 PM CST whats a guy to do?
doug_344
doug_344doug_344grand rapids, Michigan USA33 Threads 365 Posts
no, maybe its better off just forgetting about her..
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Jun 28, 2006 6:25 PM CST whats a guy to do?
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
How do you feel about her ? Sounds like you really liked her. Paws
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Jun 28, 2006 6:30 PM CST whats a guy to do?
doug_344
doug_344doug_344grand rapids, Michigan USA33 Threads 365 Posts
she was one of my best friends.. it brought me alot of joy making things easier for her and her kids..
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Jun 28, 2006 6:31 PM CST whats a guy to do?
Katers1970
Katers1970Katers1970lonelyville, Indiana USA90 Threads 2,444 Posts
call her, seems like you really care about her still
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Jun 28, 2006 6:32 PM CST whats a guy to do?
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
This should be resolved soon. Again, call her. Get it over with. Paws
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