Would You Try Or Not ( Archived) (29)

Apr 9, 2009 2:54 PM CST Would You Try Or Not
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts

If you had a habit that was annoying your SO and he/she
asked you to please try to stop, would you?

As for me if it were at all possible I would stop. I do
realize some habits are very hard to stop. help
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Apr 9, 2009 2:55 PM CST Would You Try Or Not
In response to: If you had a habit that was annoying your SO and he/she
asked you to please try to stop, would you?

As for me if it were at all possible I would stop. I do
realize some habits are very hard to stop.


If I could I certainly would try but there is a point when something is a minor habit that we need to just be accepted for who we are.
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Apr 9, 2009 2:59 PM CST Would You Try Or Not
kellydenise
kellydenisekellydenisecleveland, Ohio USA7 Threads 519 Posts
Dawn7z: If I could I certainly would try but there is a point when something is a minor habit that we need to just be accepted for who we are.

i suppose it would depend on the habit, assuming it was a bad habit, i would probably try to stop it.
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Apr 9, 2009 3:01 PM CST Would You Try Or Not
mexikanska
mexikanskamexikanskaCancún, Quintana Roo Mexico55 Threads 3 Polls 963 Posts
sassy49senior: If you had a habit that was annoying your SO and he/she
asked you to please try to stop, would you?

As for me if it were at all possible I would stop. I do
realize some habits are very hard to stop.


Love is: accept the person just the way she/he is....
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Apr 9, 2009 3:02 PM CST Would You Try Or Not
wixomwizard
wixomwizardwixomwizardWixom, Michigan USA35 Threads 3,636 Posts
If I knew it was annoying to her, most definately, out of love and respect for her. Annoying habits die hard though.hug kiss
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Apr 9, 2009 3:03 PM CST Would You Try Or Not
wixomwizard: If I knew it was annoying to her, most definately, out of love and respect for her. Annoying habits die hard though.


Well if the person loves you he/she will deal with it. If it's minor that is. Depends.
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Apr 9, 2009 3:05 PM CST Would You Try Or Not
epicure
epicureepicureAlanya/Antalya, Mediterranean Turkey401 Threads 10 Polls 5,224 Posts
I couldn't stop CS forums
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Apr 9, 2009 3:06 PM CST Would You Try Or Not
moonlightstar
moonlightstarmoonlightstarparis, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France12 Threads 1,073 Posts
epicure: I couldn't stop CS forums



Totally agree.... its a Love Drug.....angel
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Apr 9, 2009 3:07 PM CST Would You Try Or Not
wixomwizard
wixomwizardwixomwizardWixom, Michigan USA35 Threads 3,636 Posts
Dawn7z: Well if the person loves you he/she will deal with it. If it's minor that is. Depends.


Sometimes we assume we are not be hurtful, but assumption is dangerous to a relationship.
I've missed chatting with you, pretty lady.smitten hug kiss teddybear bouquet
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Apr 9, 2009 3:08 PM CST Would You Try Or Not
USThumper
USThumperUSThumperMexico, New York USA4 Threads 3,957 Posts
Dawn7z: Well if the person loves you he/she will deal with it. If it's minor that is. Depends.
I have lots of bad habits. But even if she cicnt say anything, if I knew one botherd her I would try to stop it. I may not succed but I would try.
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Apr 9, 2009 3:10 PM CST Would You Try Or Not
In response to: If you had a habit that was annoying your SO and he/she
asked you to please try to stop, would you?

As for me if it were at all possible I would stop. I do
realize some habits are very hard to stop.


Most of us don't do things to purposely annoy others and my guess is that in a lot of relationships it's the small amount of annoyances that help destroy them but really it's overlooking someone's laugh, snoring problem or whatever and loving them. There it is again. It's not asking what you can give to me in essence perfection but what do we give to each other. Acceptance. If we accepted ourselves and others more I think there would be a lot healthier, more joyful free people out there.
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Apr 9, 2009 3:34 PM CST Would You Try Or Not
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts

I have listened to lady friends moan and groan and say they
are going to leave or get a divorce because their man,
leaves the lid up on the toilet, forgets to tiolet paper
on the holder, doesn't put cap back on toothpaste, doesn't
close bathroom door when they are alone, says I love you
so many times a day it gets annoying.

I know ladies men have some crazy reasons for saying they
have had enough also.

I just wonder sometimes, especially on days like this when
it is too dreary to go outside, what happened to compromise
or even better yet, not sweating the small stuff. mumbling
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Apr 9, 2009 3:48 PM CST Would You Try Or Not
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
sassy49senior: If you had a habit that was annoying your SO and he/she
asked you to please try to stop, would you?

As for me if it were at all possible I would stop. I do
realize some habits are very hard to stop.


I feel flexibility is called for, yes. One needs to accommodate another's wishes, feelings.... even habits. I think the important thing is that they tried. Failure is a part of life and being human but to not even try would probably irritate me more than the "habit" itself. And, yes, the reverse would apply, me thinks...

Good thread, Sassy!! thumbs up

bouquet
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Apr 9, 2009 3:49 PM CST Would You Try Or Not
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
sassy49senior: If you had a habit that was annoying your SO and he/she
asked you to please try to stop, would you?

As for me if it were at all possible I would stop. I do
realize some habits are very hard to stop.


I would do what ever I could to stop it. If you love someone I would think that you would do what ever within your power to stop it. But some habbits are hard to break as well. And I guess it would depend on what it was, right?
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Apr 9, 2009 3:54 PM CST Would You Try Or Not
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
Shirley49WV: I would do what ever I could to stop it. If you love someone I would think that you would do what ever within your power to stop it. But some habbits are hard to break as well. And I guess it would depend on what it was, right?




Hi Shirley, Hope you are having a terrific day hug
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Apr 9, 2009 4:28 PM CST Would You Try Or Not
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
Well to me if you know a guys habits and he knows your habits before you get right into being together why try and change them when youve accepted that gal or guy with all their good and bad habits from the startwave
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Apr 9, 2009 5:21 PM CST Would You Try Or Not
wixomwizard
wixomwizardwixomwizardWixom, Michigan USA35 Threads 3,636 Posts
Mercedes1: Well to me if you know a guys habits and he knows your habits before you get right into being together why try and change them when youve accepted that gal or guy with all their good and bad habits from the start

I thought heard you snoring?rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 9, 2009 5:24 PM CST Would You Try Or Not
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
wixomwizard: I thought heard you snoring?


Ah you crack me uproll eyes




rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 9, 2009 5:26 PM CST Would You Try Or Not
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
sassy49senior: Hi Shirley, Hope you are having a terrific day


My day is good but the man that I admire is having a really hard time. His sister is dying and he continues to travel 50 miles each way to be with her. Say a prayer to them Sassy.
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Apr 9, 2009 5:28 PM CST Would You Try Or Not
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
Shirley49WV: My day is good but the man that I admire is having a really hard time. His sister is dying and he continues to travel 50 miles each way to be with her. Say a prayer to them Sassy.


Your in my thoughts Shirley along with your good man and his sisterhug teddybear
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