why is it so hard to find true love (27)
artoflove79columbus, Nebraska USA1 Threads 8 PostsWhy is it so hard to find true love. I consider my self to be a hopeless romantic. All I want is someone to love me for who I am and what im about. All i ask in a person is total honesty loyalty and commitment. Why is that so hard in todays world. It seems like everybody is out for themself and not for the greater good. By that I mean out to really help others and find their true soul mate. I just dont understand for instance I just got out of a really bad relationship where she lied to me about every thing. She told me she had cancer and the Dr told her she only had 7 to 10 years to live. I felt like God put it on my heart to make the remaning years the happiest years of her life. Guess what, It was a lie. I just dont understand how some ppl can be so cold and heartless. I could go on and on about the lies I was told. I guess the reason why im posting this is I just want closure and thats something I will never get.
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artoflove79: Why is it so hard to find true love. I consider my self to be a hopeless romantic. All I want is someone to love me for who I am and what im about. All i ask in a person is total honesty loyalty and commitment. Why is that so hard in todays world. It seems like everybody is out for themself and not for the greater good. By that I mean out to really help others and find their true soul mate. I just dont understand for instance I just got out of a really bad relationship where she lied to me about every thing. She told me she had cancer and the Dr told her she only had 7 to 10 years to live. I felt like God put it on my heart to make the remaning years the happiest years of her life. Guess what, It was a lie. I just dont understand how some ppl can be so cold and heartless. I could go on and on about the lies I was told. I guess the reason why im posting this is I just want closure and thats something I will never get.
I don't know, man..we take a big risk with our hearts when we find love, but the lies shouldn't have been a part of it.
I would suggest giving yourself some time and maybe you'll find closer somehow.
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drivenbysound: I don't know, man..we take a big risk with our hearts when we find love, but the lies shouldn't have been a part of it.
I would suggest giving yourself some time and maybe you'll find closer somehow.
I would suggest giving yourself some time and maybe you'll find closer somehow.
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I have been wronged, and Lied to, cheated on, and learned from all of them, added togather tells me that you Damn well Best take to Shop For a Good one.... Stop looking to just have a quick someone in your life, But Shop for that one Golden Treasure... and that cant be Fantacy, or Rose colored glasses.... so all I can tell you son is .....TAKE YOUR TIME, even if it is for years, Dont settle for Less than you really desire...... Takes somtimes yrs to know someone.... Be Patient, have fun, Take your time.... I called you Son Because I looked at your pro and I have a son 2 yrs younger than you.... Giving away my age ha.....
If you absorb this and liosten to it it may save you MANY HEARTACHES....... Best wishes, Oh
Think on this: You will get closure when YOU, yes you .. Mentally put it behind you...Your mind has to walk away and dont look back..........
The point is for you to learn from it this time 
If you absorb this and liosten to it it may save you MANY HEARTACHES....... Best wishes, Oh Think on this: You will get closure when YOU, yes you .. Mentally put it behind you...Your mind has to walk away and dont look back..........
The point is for you to learn from it this time
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I just want to thank ya'll for your replies. It is going to be hard I have dreams about her almost every night, horrible dream. I just got to put it behind me like ya say. I did meet a beautiful woman in the grocery store yesterday and she gave me her number but because of the past relationship I dont have a job right now because she wanted me to go to california and be with her so i gave up everything to go out there. Big mistake, I feel like I dont have anything to offer anyone.
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artoflove79: Why is it so hard to find true love. I consider my self to be a hopeless romantic. All I want is someone to love me for who I am and what im about. All i ask in a person is total honesty loyalty and commitment. Why is that so hard in todays world. It seems like everybody is out for themself and not for the greater good. By that I mean out to really help others and find their true soul mate. I just dont understand for instance I just got out of a really bad relationship where she lied to me about every thing. She told me she had cancer and the Dr told her she only had 7 to 10 years to live. I felt like God put it on my heart to make the remaning years the happiest years of her life. Guess what, It was a lie. I just dont understand how some ppl can be so cold and heartless. I could go on and on about the lies I was told. I guess the reason why im posting this is I just want closure and thats something I will never get.
can you do the same???
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artoflove79: I just want to thank ya'll for your replies. It is going to be hard I have dreams about her almost every night, horrible dream. I just got to put it behind me like ya say. I did meet a beautiful woman in the grocery store yesterday and she gave me her number but because of the past relationship I dont have a job right now because she wanted me to go to california and be with her so i gave up everything to go out there. Big mistake, I feel like I dont have anything to offer anyone.
Give it some time. That's the only thing that's going to help..and you're right, get yourself together before you enter into another relationship.
You'll feel differently a year from now.
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Hard is what we are used to. True love will never be hard.
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Of cource. Everyone Ive ever dated I accept them for who they are and what their about. Thats just the way i was raised. I am a true southern gentelman. I was born and raised in the deep south. I was born in Ms and raise in New orleans I have the utmost respect and compassion for women.
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It's not hard, it's impossible.
What makes it seem hard to find, is that it is rare to have a relationship that doesn't wander into territory which proves it's absence.
What makes it seem hard to find, is that it is rare to have a relationship that doesn't wander into territory which proves it's absence.
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drivenbysound: Give it some time. That's the only thing that's going to help..and you're right, get yourself together before you enter into another relationship.
You'll feel differently a year from now.
You'll feel differently a year from now.
O.K.
but how abaut
Live your life like there is no tomorow
I know "thrue love" saunds great
and we ar all after that
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artoflove79: I just want to thank ya'll for your replies. It is going to be hard I have dreams about her almost every night, horrible dream. I just got to put it behind me like ya say. I did meet a beautiful woman in the grocery store yesterday and she gave me her number but because of the past relationship I dont have a job right now because she wanted me to go to california and be with her so i gave up everything to go out there. Big mistake, I feel like I dont have anything to offer anyone.
Hard as it is!!!! SHOW IS OVER! Right?
Today is the First day, Of the "rest of your Life"
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NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: Hard is what we are used to. True love will never be hard.
I Like that...
sounds good to me
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artoflove79: Why is it so hard to find true love. I consider my self to be a hopeless romantic. All I want is someone to love me for who I am and what im about. All i ask in a person is total honesty loyalty and commitment. Why is that so hard in todays world. It seems like everybody is out for themself and not for the greater good. By that I mean out to really help others and find their true soul mate. I just dont understand for instance I just got out of a really bad relationship where she lied to me about every thing. She told me she had cancer and the Dr told her she only had 7 to 10 years to live. I felt like God put it on my heart to make the remaning years the happiest years of her life. Guess what, It was a lie. I just dont understand how some ppl can be so cold and heartless. I could go on and on about the lies I was told. I guess the reason why im posting this is I just want closure and thats something I will never get.
So sorry...hang in there.
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artoflove79: Of cource. Everyone Ive ever dated I accept them for who they are and what their about. Thats just the way i was raised. I am a true southern gentelman. I was born and raised in the deep south. I was born in Ms and raise in New orleans I have the utmost respect and compassion for women.
I was Lived in New Orleans for 20 yrs, On The Westbank, Bridge city, westwego, area
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artoflove79: Amen brotha hotrod Amen couldnt have said it better myself
Thanks
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HotrodLarrys: I Like that...
sounds good to me
sounds good to me
I have fought for life, I will never fight for love. If it does not come easy I do not want it. Love will never cost me. Love will never cause me pain, emotions, stress, nothing that does not make me feel good.
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its hard when u are waiting but just let the time passed and it will come in your way..
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