Advice please. (15)

Apr 17, 2009 10:37 AM CST Advice please.
Thedeise
ThedeiseThedeisewaterford, Waterford Ireland174 Threads 3 Polls 1,438 Posts
If you had a female friend who had a boyfriend and was going to meet one of her ex boyfriends just as a friend, the same one who didnt treat her great when they were together, and you found out that her current boyfriend broke it off because she was going to meet the ex, and you knew she was going to come bck to you and not go back with the ex, but there were trust issues where the current boyfriend had trust issues with his girl friend, what would you tell the girl?
Apr 17, 2009 10:49 AM CST Advice please.
FriendlyFeline
FriendlyFelineFriendlyFelineMayo, Ireland18 Threads 2,908 Posts
In response to: If you had a female friend who had a boyfriend and was going to meet one of her ex boyfriends just as a friend, the same one who didnt treat her great when they were together, and you found out that her current boyfriend broke it off because she was going to meet the ex, and you knew she was going to come bck to you and not go back with the ex, but there were trust issues where the current boyfriend had trust issues with his girl friend, what would you tell the girl?
Your post seems very confusing. Has she a boyfriend or not? You mention 2 boyfriends and then a boyfriend having issues with his girlfriend.
confused

Let her off.... She is going to do what she wants to do. And more than likely she won't appreciate your help.
Apr 17, 2009 10:58 AM CST Advice please.
Thedeise
ThedeiseThedeisewaterford, Waterford Ireland174 Threads 3 Polls 1,438 Posts
FriendlyFeline: Your post seems very confusing. Has she a boyfriend or not? You mention 2 boyfriends and then a boyfriend having issues with his girlfriend.


Let her off.... She is going to do what she wants to do. And more than likely she won't appreciate your help.


The current boyfriend has the trust issues with her wanting to meet up with the ex as friends,

I had a feeling my wording was abit confusing, but that should be abit better.
Apr 17, 2009 10:58 AM CST Advice please.
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
I'm confused too.

She HAD a boyfriend? So she doesn't have one now?

She is going to meet an ex? And another ex is not happy?

Don't see what advice you're looking for Robert. If she hasn't got a boyfriend at the moment.. she can see whoever she likes.

If an ex has a problem with her seeing another ex..that is his problem.


dunno
Apr 17, 2009 11:02 AM CST Advice please.
FriendlyFeline
FriendlyFelineFriendlyFelineMayo, Ireland18 Threads 2,908 Posts
I understand now, but where do you fit in in all this?
Apr 17, 2009 11:03 AM CST Advice please.
Thedeise
ThedeiseThedeisewaterford, Waterford Ireland174 Threads 3 Polls 1,438 Posts
wexlady41: I'm confused too.

She HAD a boyfriend? So she doesn't have one now?

She is going to meet an ex? And another ex is not happy?

Don't see what advice you're looking for Robert. If she hasn't got a boyfriend at the moment.. she can see whoever she likes.

If an ex has a problem with her seeing another ex..that is his problem.


Shes going to meet an ex, and the current boyfriend is not happy.

Sorry for the confusion, you need to read carefully, my wording is abit confusing.
Apr 17, 2009 11:05 AM CST Advice please.
Thedeise
ThedeiseThedeisewaterford, Waterford Ireland174 Threads 3 Polls 1,438 Posts
FriendlyFeline: I understand now, but where do you fit in in all this?


What would you tell her if you were me?
Apr 17, 2009 11:08 AM CST Advice please.
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
FriendlyFeline: I understand now, but where do you fit in in all this?


Exactly!

Why do you need advice? I assume she is an adult! She has to sort out her own life. It's not up to you to do that for her.

If you start giving advice and things don't turn out the way she wants them to..who will she blame? You!!!

I would say stay out of it Robert.



hug
Apr 17, 2009 11:08 AM CST Advice please.
FriendlyFeline
FriendlyFelineFriendlyFelineMayo, Ireland18 Threads 2,908 Posts
Thedeise: What would you tell her if you were me?
Nothing! It's between her and her boyfriend.

If there is a problem within their relationship then it is up to them to talk about it and get it sorted.
Apr 17, 2009 11:17 AM CST Advice please.
Thedeise
ThedeiseThedeisewaterford, Waterford Ireland174 Threads 3 Polls 1,438 Posts
FriendlyFeline: Nothing! It's between her and her boyfriend.

If there is a problem within their relationship then it is up to them to talk about it and get it sorted.


Ok, thanks for that.
Apr 17, 2009 11:18 AM CST Advice please.
Thedeise
ThedeiseThedeisewaterford, Waterford Ireland174 Threads 3 Polls 1,438 Posts
Thedeise: Ok, thanks for that.


Thanks to you both i mean. laugh
Apr 17, 2009 11:21 AM CST Advice please.
FriendlyFeline
FriendlyFelineFriendlyFelineMayo, Ireland18 Threads 2,908 Posts
Thedeise: Thanks to you both i mean.
Your welcome. It's nice to see you are looking out for her.
Apr 17, 2009 11:27 AM CST Advice please.
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
Thedeise: Thanks to you both i mean.


No problem Robert. You are so lovely to try to help her out but I think you need to stand back a bit and let her make her own decisions.

teddybear
Apr 17, 2009 11:33 AM CST Advice please.
Phusion69
Phusion69Phusion69Dublin, Ireland50 Threads 9 Polls 894 Posts
Thedeise: If you had a female friend who had a boyfriend and was going to meet one of her ex boyfriends just as a friend, the same one who didnt treat her great when they were together, and you found out that her current boyfriend broke it off because she was going to meet the ex, and you knew she was going to come bck to you and not go back with the ex, but there were trust issues where the current boyfriend had trust issues with his girl friend, what would you tell the girl?


pick me up smokes and ice-cream on your way back.
Apr 17, 2009 11:45 AM CST Advice please.
Thedeise
ThedeiseThedeisewaterford, Waterford Ireland174 Threads 3 Polls 1,438 Posts
Phusion69: pick me up smokes and ice-cream on your way back.


Sorry, they didnt have what you were looking for. laugh
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