what do u do when someone will not take no for an answer? (46)
little_miss: When they keep saying they are on their way over when u say ur not at home
When they say they want to talk now when im busy at that time
How do i let him down gently he just will not listen!!
When they say they want to talk now when im busy at that time
How do i let him down gently he just will not listen!!
Let him come over if he wants sure if you're not there then you're not there have you seen him face to face to tell him its over??
little_miss: When they keep saying they are on their way over when u say ur not at home
When they say they want to talk now when im busy at that time
How do i let him down gently he just will not listen!!
When they say they want to talk now when im busy at that time
How do i let him down gently he just will not listen!!
Guess you have to give up on the gently approach!!!
Tell him out straight you don't want to see him.
little_miss: When they keep saying they are on their way over when u say ur not at home
When they say they want to talk now when im busy at that time
How do i let him down gently he just will not listen!!
When they say they want to talk now when im busy at that time
How do i let him down gently he just will not listen!!
Why let him down gently ?
Maybe try the more direct "which part of NO don't you understand " approach
Send GF over to sort him out 
ladylumps: Let him come over if he wants sure if you're not there then you're not there have you seen him face to face to tell him its over??
well it was a mutual ending didnt do it face to face tho i would be very uncomfortable meeting him after all the things he has said now, being very forceful and one half bordering on a threat
yeah,thats a bit controlling of him...
you cant allow him to wreak your head like that,even if he is a good guy ,and yolu wanted to do it nicely,sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind-otherwise it could be a very long,drawn out end...
you cant allow him to wreak your head like that,even if he is a good guy ,and yolu wanted to do it nicely,sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind-otherwise it could be a very long,drawn out end...
hasagoodheart: Why let him down gently ?
Maybe try the more direct "which part of NO don't you understand " approach
Maybe try the more direct "which part of NO don't you understand " approach
The word no is not in his comprehension he just keeps ignoring it
And i know its only fair of me to meet him face to face but i just dont want to meet him again he just does not get that i cant meet him when he wants
little_miss: The word no is not in his comprehension he just keeps ignoring it
Well then........ add some words to make it clearer for him....such as ........."which part of NO, now get lost before I call the guards don't you understand"............?
Men have selective hearing, you should know that by now !.
little_miss: And i know its only fair of me to meet him face to face but i just dont want to meet him again he just does not get that i cant meet him when he wants
you dont have to meet anyone face to face,if you dont feel comfortable after all dats been said-i wouldnt either,and u owe him nothing,,,
get a male friend to either answer ur fone the next time he rings,and say hes your new boyfriend whos staying with you for a while,or get someone to ring him and tell him,he needs to backoff-
in this day and age-you dont need that carry on..
where you with him long.....
lancerbora: you dont have to meet anyone face to face,if you dont feel comfortable after all dats been said-i wouldnt either,and u owe him nothing,,,
get a male friend to either answer ur fone the next time he rings,and say hes your new boyfriend whos staying with you for a while,or get someone to ring him and tell him,he needs to backoff-
in this day and age-you dont need that carry on..
where you with him long.....
get a male friend to either answer ur fone the next time he rings,and say hes your new boyfriend whos staying with you for a while,or get someone to ring him and tell him,he needs to backoff-
in this day and age-you dont need that carry on..
where you with him long.....
thats true, i know him 6 weeks, i wouldnt let anyone say to me what he said to me today, so why would i let him treat me any different ... so my guilt for not meeting him face to face now is diminishing
Check settings on your phone. With most phones now you can block a number. If you can block him...do!!!
little_miss: thats true, i know him 6 weeks, i wouldnt let anyone say to me what he said to me today, so why would i let him treat me any different ... so my guilt for not meeting him face to face now is diminishing
6 weeks,are you crazy allowing this crap,after six weeks..
can you imagine him in 6 months-it doesnt even bare thing about !!!
theres no way ,if i was a close friend to you,id tell you this-no way!!!
get rid,by whatever means ..he isnt been nice to you,so dont waste anymore time,been nice either..
can you block his number from your phone,i can block numbers on mine...
after that,really you must tell him you have been advised to give his number and name to the guards.
look after yourself,and have no concern for someone like that-trust me!
lancerbora: 6 weeks,are you crazy allowing this crap,after six weeks..
can you imagine him in 6 months-it doesnt even bare thing about !!!
theres no way ,if i was a close friend to you,id tell you this-no way!!!
get rid,by whatever means ..he isnt been nice to you,so dont waste anymore time,been nice either..
can you block his number from your phone,i can block numbers on mine...
after that,really you must tell him you have been advised to give his number and name to the guards.
look after yourself,and have no concern for someone like that-trust me!
can you imagine him in 6 months-it doesnt even bare thing about !!!
theres no way ,if i was a close friend to you,id tell you this-no way!!!
get rid,by whatever means ..he isnt been nice to you,so dont waste anymore time,been nice either..
can you block his number from your phone,i can block numbers on mine...
after that,really you must tell him you have been advised to give his number and name to the guards.
look after yourself,and have no concern for someone like that-trust me!
ive turned my phone off and will check it in the morning he was a really nice guy and im sure hes a nice person just the last week has been different and today was certainly very different
little_miss: ive turned my phone off and will check it in the morning he was a really nice guy and im sure hes a nice person just the last week has been different and today was certainly very different
YEAH,I FIND ITS USUALLY JUST A SMALL THING THAT WILL BRING THE REAL PERSON OUT IN A GUY,LUCKY FOR YOU,IT HAPPENED EARLY ON..
DONT WORRY YOURSELF,HE WILL GET TIRED OF BEEN IGNORED ...
GOODLUCK,AND TAKE CARE,AND MOST IMPORTANT,DONT GIVE IN TO BULLYING,CAUSE THATS WHAT IT IS..BE STRONG!!!
little_miss: ive turned my phone off and will check it in the morning he was a really nice guy and im sure hes a nice person just the last week has been different and today was certainly very different
Well everyone has off days when they do and say things that are out of character for them it could be down to stress, tiredness, hormones or worried about something.
little_miss: ive turned my phone off and will check it in the morning he was a really nice guy and im sure hes a nice person just the last week has been different and today was certainly very different
I hate saying this Littlemiss because I think you are a really lovely sweet girl but maybe you are giving him the wrong signals without realising itladylumps: Well everyone has off days when they do and say things that are out of character for them it could be down to stress, tiredness, hormones or worried about something.
Or he could be an a**hole!!!
wexlady41: Or he could be an a**hole!!!
sound about right !!!!
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When they say they want to talk now when im busy at that time
How do i let him down gently he just will not listen!!