what do u do when someone will not take no for an answer? (46)
wexlady41: Or he could be an a**hole!!!
That he could be Clo but there are 2 sides to every tale jmo
little_miss: ive turned my phone off and will check it in the morning he was a really nice guy and im sure hes a nice person just the last week has been different and today was certainly very different
You are entitled to be treated with respect. Shut him out completely. Erase his voicemail messages WITHOUT listening to them and make a decision to move on with your life. Your only responsibility here is to yourself.
Thank you all for your advice, I appreciate it
little_miss: ive turned my phone off and will check it in the morning he was a really nice guy and im sure hes a nice person just the last week has been different and today was certainly very different
Everyone has a shadow and we can all be off form, yes, but without respect for boundaries there can be no meaningful friendship and certainly no decent relationship. If in the morning he sees and owns his disrespect and apologises for what he did, then maybe you could forgive him ?. If he doesn't..... drop him......fast
ladylumps: That he could be Clo but there are 2 sides to every tale jmo
I know that!! Was just offering one side!
ladylumps: That he could be Clo but there are 2 sides to every tale jmo
thats very true and hes not here to defend himself
two words D
restraining order...
restraining order...
RubyTuesday1: Send GF over to sort him out
lol, im a lover not a fighter ruby..
There's always the John Wayne Bobbit solution.
Godsgift: There's always the John Wayne Bobbit solution.
OOhh now you're talking. Lorena Bobbit is my hero!!!
a male relation and 2 barrels?????
wexlady41: OOhh now you're talking. Lorena Bobbit is my hero!!!
Now I'm starting to be afraid....VERY AFRAID!
Godsgift: Now I'm starting to be afraid....VERY AFRAID!
little_miss: When they keep saying they are on their way over when u say ur not at home
When they say they want to talk now when im busy at that time
How do i let him down gently he just will not listen!!
jmo...but it sounds you want clossure but the other half does not!When they say they want to talk now when im busy at that time
How do i let him down gently he just will not listen!!
you have to make yourself very clear and un-equivicable about the fact!
anythin else will lead to mis-interpretation or faalse hope!
cruel to be kind!
jmo...
(and i`m normally such a nice guy!)
Men do not listen - jesus where have I heard that one before
you have tried gentle, did you use the words I do not wish to have a relationship with you anymore other than platonic friends ??
If you did and he wont take no, then forget gentle and go for the spelling it out plainly bit ......
you have tried gentle, did you use the words I do not wish to have a relationship with you anymore other than platonic friends ??
If you did and he wont take no, then forget gentle and go for the spelling it out plainly bit ......
little_miss: When they keep saying they are on their way over when u say ur not at home
When they say they want to talk now when im busy at that time
How do i let him down gently he just will not listen!!
When they say they want to talk now when im busy at that time
How do i let him down gently he just will not listen!!
knock him out with a hurl, tell him your going out to lunch with another guy, tell him ur gay, tell him you'll get ur brothers down to take care of him if he doesn't stop harassing you.
Godsgift: You are entitled to be treated with respect. Shut him out completely. Erase his voicemail messages WITHOUT listening to them and make a decision to move on with your life. Your only responsibility here is to yourself.
Couldn't have said it better myself!
Don't even read his texts if you can avoid it!
He will eventually get tired, just be sure that you don't want him in your life at all!
little_miss: When they keep saying they are on their way over when u say ur not at home
When they say they want to talk now when im busy at that time
How do i let him down gently he just will not listen!!
get a gang after him When they say they want to talk now when im busy at that time
How do i let him down gently he just will not listen!!
sometimes uv got to be cruel to be kind so just say to him look stalker stop it oh yea make sure u say it in front of all his friends that should work either that or just stick to getting the gang after himwe had a long chat on the phone today we disagreed on a few things his idea and my idea of a relationship are polar opposites esp. re: long distance which it looks like it would end up turning out to be had we stayed together.
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what about the signals hes giving me?