Just curious, but, how do people expect to find someone on CS, if they give up & leave? (31)
They are lurking. They send flowers and visit profiles. They just need to warm up to the forums. This place can be scary.
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NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: They are lurking. They send flowers and visit profiles. They just need to warm up to the forums. This place can be scary.
Thats right! scary! there are nakedmudpeople lurking about!
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Da10th: Just curious
Does anyone else think this shows insight into what they'd actually offer in a relationship if they can't even how some sort of perceverence instead of expecting instant gratification?
Does anyone else think this shows insight into what they'd actually offer in a relationship if they can't even how some sort of perceverence instead of expecting instant gratification?
To me it shows the person would probably bail out the first time there was a problem within the relationship.As in the easy way out.
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NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: This place can be scary.
I am scared of most of you guys!!! Have you seem most of the picture! Wow.... .
P.S. Not you NMP
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somechick: To me it shows the person would probably bail out the first time there was a problem within the relationship.As in the easy way out.
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somechick: To me it shows the person would probably bail out the first time there was a problem within the relationship.As in the easy way out.
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J.D
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somechick: To me it shows the person would probably bail out the first time there was a problem within the relationship.As in the easy way out.
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We must walk their walk before judging their actions.
If you have been told your whole life that you are too sorry to be around decent people. Then when a rejection comes.....that confirms that which you have been told your whole life.
We never know anothers walk and how close they are to stumbling.
If you have been told your whole life that you are too sorry to be around decent people. Then when a rejection comes.....that confirms that which you have been told your whole life.
We never know anothers walk and how close they are to stumbling.
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RillyNiceGuy: We must walk their walk before judging their actions.
If you have been told your whole life that you are too sorry to be around decent people. Then when a rejection comes.....that confirms that which you have been told your whole life.
We never know anothers walk and how close they are to stumbling.
If you have been told your whole life that you are too sorry to be around decent people. Then when a rejection comes.....that confirms that which you have been told your whole life.
We never know anothers walk and how close they are to stumbling.
That's true rilly but,sometimes people do take the easy way out of things.
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RillyNiceGuy: We must walk their walk before judging their actions.
If you have been told your whole life that you are too sorry to be around decent people. Then when a rejection comes.....that confirms that which you have been told your whole life.
We never know anothers walk and how close they are to stumbling.
If you have been told your whole life that you are too sorry to be around decent people. Then when a rejection comes.....that confirms that which you have been told your whole life.
We never know anothers walk and how close they are to stumbling.
I'd agree with this to a point, because I grew up with people telling me I was nothing but worthless,but, having grown up, I've also learned to have respect from within no matter what anyone says. There comes a point in life when you need to hold your head up high and carry yourself with pride. Only one person in this world needs to be proud of you, and that's yourself. Once you show respect & confidence from within, you gain respect & confidence from those around you. So, as cold and callous as it may sound, I have no sympathy for those that cannot respect themselves because of what others say about them. Again, you are the only person in this world that needs to have respect for you.
-JMO-
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i am not leaving, but i just got the dear john letter i feel bad but not defeated i may lay back a bit but i will still b here not in heart or spirit but i will hang on the fringe
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somechick: That's true rilly but,sometimes people do take the easy way out of things.
Some do!------ This thread is Archived ------
caspatch: i am not leaving, but i just got the dear john letter i feel bad but not defeated i may lay back a bit but i will still b here not in heart or spirit but i will hang on the fringe
Well, it's good you are staying to fight the good fight
If you give up, you never get a chance to move foward
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Da10th: Just curious
Does anyone else think this shows insight into what they'd actually offer in a relationship if they can't even how some sort of perceverence instead of expecting instant gratification?
Does anyone else think this shows insight into what they'd actually offer in a relationship if they can't even how some sort of perceverence instead of expecting instant gratification?
me thinks its to get attention...........JMO
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rocketqueen: me thinks its to get attention...........JMO
Another reason that I strongly agree with However, I think it's really the wrong kind of attention to seek.
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Da10th: I'd agree with this to a point, because I grew up with people telling me I was nothing but worthless,but, having grown up, I've also learned to have respect from within no matter what anyone says. There comes a point in life when you need to hold your head up high and carry yourself with pride. Only one person in this world needs to be proud of you, and that's yourself. Once you show respect & confidence from within, you gain respect & confidence from those around you. So, as cold and callous as it may sound, I have no sympathy for those that cannot respect themselves because of what others say about them. Again, you are the only person in this world that needs to have respect for you.
-JMO-
Some people are not able to find it. The mind set is too strong without proper understanding of how to fight it. They get lost and don't know how to find their way out except....like a friend I had... with a bullet! His father was my best friend and I knew the young man from a little stinker....but he got lost. We should latch on to these people and show them what they need.....acceptance and a way out.-JMO-
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Does anyone else think this shows insight into what they'd actually offer in a relationship if they can't even how some sort of perceverence instead of expecting instant gratification?