What DONT you miss ( Archived) (70)

May 9, 2009 1:41 AM CST What DONT you miss
DBOWMAN
DBOWMANDBOWMANbrighton, East Sussex, England UK2 Threads 69 Posts
His constant complaining about his health and if I refused even the slightest thing how I was ruining his life. The violent temper of smashing up furniture but most of all I don't miss the general bullying of my son and myself. Shame it took seeing what it was doing to my son to make me divorce him. In response to mf's what was my part in all this I allowed my fear of him to control me until it reached the point my son had totally lost so much confidence he couldn't accept a compliment but he could accept criticism. I have been divorced 4 years now and my son after counselling is more confident now. Lesson learned. I am very cautious now.
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May 9, 2009 1:44 AM CST What DONT you miss
Baby_Monkey
Baby_MonkeyBaby_MonkeyNaguabo, Puerto Rico45 Threads 40 Polls 174 Posts
Polarbutterfly: "The cheating.....".




I agree. crying
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May 9, 2009 1:48 AM CST What DONT you miss
cuamanda02
cuamanda02cuamanda02Lebanon, Tennessee USA8 Posts
LovelyAsTheSun: oops!
i wonder if that's how i earned the nickname "cold mouse feet"


rolling on the floor laughing I'm sure my ex doesn't miss my popsicle-toes!
He had to rub them every day during my last month of pregnancy! grin
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May 9, 2009 1:58 AM CST What DONT you miss
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
cuamanda02: I'm sure my ex doesn't miss my popsicle-toes!
He had to rub them every day during my last month of pregnancy!


This is a good venting thread.

There is alot of healthy release here. thumbs up
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May 9, 2009 2:16 AM CST What DONT you miss
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
Feeling as though I had to behave a certain way in front of certain company.
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May 9, 2009 2:29 AM CST What DONT you miss
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
sweetowen: Feeling as though I had to behave a certain way in front of certain company.


Hi.Bet he thought that behaviour was very cute once too didn't he? comfort
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May 9, 2009 2:32 AM CST What DONT you miss
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
DBOWMAN: His constant complaining about his health and if I refused even the slightest thing how I was ruining his life. The violent temper of smashing up furniture but most of all I don't miss the general bullying of my son and myself. Shame it took seeing what it was doing to my son to make me divorce him. In response to mf's what was my part in all this I allowed my fear of him to control me until it reached the point my son had totally lost so much confidence he couldn't accept a compliment but he could accept criticism. I have been divorced 4 years now and my son after counselling is more confident now. Lesson learned. I am very cautious now.


That is so sad that your son suffered so much. We all know how hard bad relationships can be on us adults, mental torture at times. A man like that should be forced into some sort of rehabilitation before being let loose again on society IMO... and sorry to hear of your suffering also of course.
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May 9, 2009 5:04 AM CST What DONT you miss
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
CONSTANT NAGGING.....and going to fetch vegetarian burgers halfway across the city.
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May 12, 2009 6:49 AM CST What DONT you miss
shot3743
shot3743shot3743Vidin, Bulgaria26 Threads 1 Polls 573 Posts
thewall2: +++ snip +++

........ going to fetch vegetarian burgers halfway across the city.


That is so... words fail me.
I would've sneaked a Big Mac on the way!
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May 12, 2009 8:34 AM CST What DONT you miss
couscous
couscouscouscouschristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand40 Posts
i wont miss the awkward silences, the blank stares, being talked over all the time, her having to get trolleyed to show feelings good ot bad.
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