Questions on life (129)

May 11, 2009 6:38 AM CST Questions on life
Spartan88
Spartan88Spartan88Dublin, Ireland47 Threads 1 Polls 1,103 Posts
Hi everybody!!!!
Well, the weekend is now over and its back to the gring and reality of another week of reality. Maybe its just me but I woike up early today and just lay in bed thinking about the
direction my life is going in. I am not working and single.
I mean, after the birthday bash with all you lovely people,
I might be just feeling withdrawl symptoms. Guess I'm just
tired of the normal rut. I mean, after 3 years on the site,
I've never actually met anyone and anyone I've been interested
in, doesnt feel the same...It just sucks! At 39, maybe I'm not meant to find anyone. I've even thought of leaving the site. I
like getting to know people, but by the time I get around to do the asking, they have someone else...sigh. I like to think I'm a
nice person. Friendly, kind, averagly good looking. I just have no idea what to do or how to meet someone....sigh. Ok, time to get up and have me cornflakes! It is 12.45!


Seriously though....anyone else feel that way too?
May 11, 2009 6:40 AM CST Questions on life
LusciousLibra
LusciousLibraLusciousLibraTramore, Waterford Ireland28 Threads 2 Polls 1,870 Posts
Spartan88: Hi everybody!!!!
Well, the weekend is now over and its back to the gring and reality of another week of reality. Maybe its just me but I woike up early today and just lay in bed thinking about the
direction my life is going in. I am not working and single.
I mean, after the birthday bash with all you lovely people,
I might be just feeling withdrawl symptoms. Guess I'm just
tired of the normal rut. I mean, after 3 years on the site,
I've never actually met anyone and anyone I've been interested
in, doesnt feel the same...It just sucks! At 39, maybe I'm not meant to find anyone. I've even thought of leaving the site. I
like getting to know people, but by the time I get around to do the asking, they have someone else...sigh. I like to think I'm a
nice person. Friendly, kind, averagly good looking. I just have no idea what to do or how to meet someone....sigh. Ok, time to get up and have me cornflakes! It is 12.45! Seriously though....anyone else feel that way too?



Only every dayhug
May 11, 2009 6:42 AM CST Questions on life
Crazylegs
CrazylegsCrazylegsDublin, Ireland71 Threads 6,737 Posts
Spartan88: Hi everybody!!!!
Well, the weekend is now over and its back to the gring and reality of another week of reality. Maybe its just me but I woike up early today and just lay in bed thinking about the
direction my life is going in. I am not working and single.
I mean, after the birthday bash with all you lovely people,
I might be just feeling withdrawl symptoms. Guess I'm just
tired of the normal rut. I mean, after 3 years on the site,
I've never actually met anyone and anyone I've been interested
in, doesnt feel the same...It just sucks! At 39, maybe I'm not meant to find anyone. I've even thought of leaving the site. I
like getting to know people, but by the time I get around to do the asking, they have someone else...sigh. I like to think I'm a
nice person. Friendly, kind, averagly good looking. I just have no idea what to do or how to meet someone....sigh. Ok, time to get up and have me cornflakes! It is 12.45! Seriously though....anyone else feel that way too?


dont worry she is out there for ya sometimes it just takes time to find the right person hug hug
May 11, 2009 6:42 AM CST Questions on life
Spartan88
Spartan88Spartan88Dublin, Ireland47 Threads 1 Polls 1,103 Posts
AWwww
May 11, 2009 6:44 AM CST Questions on life
ciaran64
ciaran64ciaran64drimnagh, Dublin Ireland217 Threads 4 Polls 5,881 Posts
Spartan88: Hi everybody!!!!
Well, the weekend is now over and its back to the gring and reality of another week of reality. Maybe its just me but I woike up early today and just lay in bed thinking about the
direction my life is going in. I am not working and single.
I mean, after the birthday bash with all you lovely people,
I might be just feeling withdrawl symptoms. Guess I'm just
tired of the normal rut. I mean, after 3 years on the site,
I've never actually met anyone and anyone I've been interested
in, doesnt feel the same...It just sucks! At 39, maybe I'm not meant to find anyone. I've even thought of leaving the site. I
like getting to know people, but by the time I get around to do the asking, they have someone else...sigh. I like to think I'm a
nice person. Friendly, kind, averagly good looking. I just have no idea what to do or how to meet someone....sigh. Ok, time to get up and have me cornflakes! It is 12.45! Seriously though....anyone else feel that way too?
have d
Spartan88: Hi everybody!!!!
Well, the weekend is now over and its back to the gring and reality of another week of reality. Maybe its just me but I woike up early today and just lay in bed thinking about the
direction my life is going in. I am not working and single.
I mean, after the birthday bash with all you lovely people,
I might be just feeling withdrawl symptoms. Guess I'm just
tired of the normal rut. I mean, after 3 years on the site,
I've never actually met anyone and anyone I've been interested
in, doesnt feel the same...It just sucks! At 39, maybe I'm not meant to find anyone. I've even thought of leaving the site. I
like getting to know people, but by the time I get around to do the asking, they have someone else...sigh. I like to think I'm a
nice person. Friendly, kind, averagly good looking. I just have no idea what to do or how to meet someone....sigh. Ok, time to get up and have me cornflakes! It is 12.45! Seriously though....anyone else feel that way too?
have done on occassions
May 11, 2009 6:44 AM CST Questions on life
sweetvelvet
sweetvelvetsweetvelvetdublin, Dublin Ireland37 Threads 1 Polls 6,258 Posts
you'll meet that special person when your least expecting her .yes we all feel like this from time to time.hug
May 11, 2009 6:45 AM CST Questions on life
Kellyseye
KellyseyeKellyseyeDublin, Ireland17 Threads 1,700 Posts
HI Spatan

Dont give up we are all on this for a reason you will find some one, i promise, i thought i had for the past 2 years, i guess not so im back giving it a go(guys im here lol)!!

i no at times it can seem like therre is no one here to fancy/chat to etc, but there is jsut be patient! hug
May 11, 2009 6:46 AM CST Questions on life
Spartan88
Spartan88Spartan88Dublin, Ireland47 Threads 1 Polls 1,103 Posts
Crazylegs: dont worry she is out there for ya sometimes it just takes time to find the right person
Thanks... I just am so crap when it comes to making all the right moves... I should be one of these unfeeling guys who just walks up to a girl and just gets her...but I'm not. Believe me, I'm trying to meet someone, its just so hard to read the signs...any advice?moping Ps...Sorry I'm down today gang....Just feeling lonely
May 11, 2009 6:49 AM CST Questions on life
ladylumps
ladylumpsladylumpsDublin, Ireland105 Threads 4 Polls 9,454 Posts
Spartan88: Thanks... I just am so crap when it comes to making all the right moves... I should be one of these unfeeling guys who just walks up to a girl and just gets her...but I'm not. Believe me, I'm trying to meet someone, its just so hard to read the signs...any advice? Ps...Sorry I'm down today gang....Just feeling lonely


Dont feel you have to say sorry hun we are your friends and thats what we are all here for we lift and listen to each other when we are down and laugh and have fun when we are up thats what friendship is all about hug hug
May 11, 2009 6:51 AM CST Questions on life
spartan you not the only one m8 i met some wonderful women in here dated a couple of them and even thouh it didnd last i remain great friends
the right one will come along
your a great guy and genuine and you meet the right one whether in here or somewhere else
May 11, 2009 6:52 AM CST Questions on life
Kellyseye
KellyseyeKellyseyeDublin, Ireland17 Threads 1,700 Posts
good things to those who wait, thats wht i tell myself lol!dancing
May 11, 2009 6:55 AM CST Questions on life
ciaran64
ciaran64ciaran64drimnagh, Dublin Ireland217 Threads 4 Polls 5,881 Posts
ladylumps: Dont feel you have to say sorry hun we are your friends and thats what we are all here for we lift and listen to each other when we are down and laugh and have fun when we are up thats what friendship is all about
have 2 agree sinead,lks on here are great,being thee for me when needed a boost,sean ur a great guy
May 11, 2009 7:06 AM CST Questions on life
Spartan88
Spartan88Spartan88Dublin, Ireland47 Threads 1 Polls 1,103 Posts
Ahh, thankyou Aimee, Sinead, Ciaran, Rob and Kellyseye. It's nice to say and hear.

Still feel fed up with the whole single thing though, 'Look at me, I'm here!!' lol
May 11, 2009 7:12 AM CST Questions on life
Crazylegs
CrazylegsCrazylegsDublin, Ireland71 Threads 6,737 Posts
Spartan88: Ahh, thankyou Aimee, Sinead, Ciaran, Rob and Kellyseye. It's nice to say and hear.

Still feel fed up with the whole single thing though, 'Look at me, I'm here!!' lol


everyone im sure has been in the same boat at some stage im sure and i think just Sinead is right its when you stop looking that ull get a tap on the shoulder from her saying "im here"


your a great guy so hang on in there

teddybear
May 11, 2009 7:29 AM CST Questions on life
ladylumps
ladylumpsladylumpsDublin, Ireland105 Threads 4 Polls 9,454 Posts
Crazylegs: everyone im sure has been in the same boat at some stage im sure and i think just Sinead is right its when you stop looking that ull get a tap on the shoulder from her saying "im here"your a great guy so hang on in there


yeah sure we're all waiting on the tap on the shoulder but ya have to get on with your life until you do.
teddybear
May 11, 2009 7:29 AM CST Questions on life
Spartan88
Spartan88Spartan88Dublin, Ireland47 Threads 1 Polls 1,103 Posts
Crazylegs: everyone im sure has been in the same boat at some stage im sure and i think just Sinead is right its when you stop looking that ull get a tap on the shoulder from her saying "im here"your a great guy so hang on in there

tapping me on the shoulder? lol... or a big hug from behind lol

But if i stop looking how will i find her, unless shes looking for me and because i'm not lookiing for her, she wont find me because even though i'm not looking for me she is lookinhg
lol- now i'm confused . So.....ermm....the way to find that special someone who's looking for me, is to stop looking for her......sniff, i need a hug someone dunno
May 11, 2009 7:34 AM CST Questions on life
Crazylegs
CrazylegsCrazylegsDublin, Ireland71 Threads 6,737 Posts
Spartan88: tapping me on the shoulder? lol... or a big hug from behind lol

But if i stop looking how will i find her, unless shes looking for me and because i'm not lookiing for her, she wont find me because even though i'm not looking for me she is lookinhg
lol- now i'm confused . So.....ermm....the way to find that special someone who's looking for me, is to stop looking for her......sniff, i need a hug someone


hug hug hug
May 11, 2009 7:38 AM CST Questions on life
ciaran64
ciaran64ciaran64drimnagh, Dublin Ireland217 Threads 4 Polls 5,881 Posts
Spartan88: tapping me on the shoulder? lol... or a big hug from behind lol

But if i stop looking how will i find her, unless shes looking for me and because i'm not lookiing for her, she wont find me because even though i'm not looking for me she is lookinhg
lol- now i'm confused . So.....ermm....the way to find that special someone who's looking for me, is to stop looking for her......sniff, i need a hug someone
me and aimee will shae our frisps with youhug
May 11, 2009 7:44 AM CST Questions on life
Spartan88
Spartan88Spartan88Dublin, Ireland47 Threads 1 Polls 1,103 Posts
Awwwww Thankyou for that. hug blushing

Sorry everyone, just having one of those cr*ppy days today.

Anyoine want to invite me over later for coffee or do some tapping? lol laugh
May 11, 2009 7:50 AM CST Questions on life
Spartan88
Spartan88Spartan88Dublin, Ireland47 Threads 1 Polls 1,103 Posts
Spartan88: Errrmmm....................................................................................................................................................................................................sorry.
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