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May 18, 2009 11:59 AM CST Advice needed on a peculiar situation urgently
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
biffyclyro: ha she prob did but i'm not worried about that. ..
tnx


Sheesh thank God for you that you have obviously "grownwow "

For a minute I thought you were saying that you were the same

as when you were five wink

Rejoice joy Enjoy it ,if its what you want .

bouquet
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May 18, 2009 12:00 PM CST Advice needed on a peculiar situation urgently
biffyclyro
biffyclyrobiffyclyroCork, Ireland1 Threads 13 Posts
Ha thats a brilliant point about the fact that men die younger.lol..rolling on the floor laughing .but very true..I hope they do too.

Well thanks.wine
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May 18, 2009 12:02 PM CST Advice needed on a peculiar situation urgently
biffyclyro
biffyclyrobiffyclyroCork, Ireland1 Threads 13 Posts
livinglarge: Sheesh thank God for you that you have obviously "grown "

For a minute I thought you were saying that you were the same

as when you were five

Rejoice Enjoy it ,if its what you want .


hahahaha ya I definetly have.She experinced the new me first hand.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing ...Thankoo wine
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May 18, 2009 12:04 PM CST Advice needed on a peculiar situation urgently
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
biffyclyro: hahahaha ya I definetly have.She experinced the new me first hand. ...Thankoo

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

lucky her cheering

kiss laugh
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May 18, 2009 12:32 PM CST Advice needed on a peculiar situation urgently
Snuggs09
Snuggs09Snuggs09Somewhere, New Jersey USA128 Threads 1 Polls 2,615 Posts
druidess6308: Age is just a number, and she's only nine years older than you...that's not a huge difference in the long run, really. Especially since most men die before their partners, it would make more sense for a woman to date a younger man. You've known each other for a long time, and if the relationship is that good, who cares what your families think? Hopefully, they love the two of you enough to want you to be happy. Honestly, go for it, enjoy it...and there's nothing "forbidden" about this one.

Best of luck to the two of you.


I don't agree that age is just a number. A man of 40 has different interests than a woman of 20. A woman of 70 has different interests and possibly deteriorating health issues then a man of 50.

He is questioning if he should be with her because of the nature they knew each other. If he thought there might be a problem he should have thought about that before they were intimate.
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May 18, 2009 12:37 PM CST Advice needed on a peculiar situation urgently
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
biffyclyro: Well recently I met a woman that used to babysit me when I was 5 she was 14 at the time.Well we hit it off so well.you wouldn't believe it had been 15years since we last met.We became great friends while getting very close emotionally and physically..this closeness between soon developed into more then "friendship"..Last weekend we acted upon our forbidden desires.In a sense it was wrong considering our past but it felt so right.Now we don't know what to do because of the age difference and our past.Any ideas?.




is there any rules not to in love in older or younger to us?
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May 18, 2009 12:39 PM CST Advice needed on a peculiar situation urgently
biffyclyro
biffyclyrobiffyclyroCork, Ireland1 Threads 13 Posts
Amm well now I don't know of any rules against it.except with legal age obviously.:)

krisha: is there any rules not to in love in older or younger to us?
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May 18, 2009 12:42 PM CST Advice needed on a peculiar situation urgently
not that big a age difference might be of concern to your mum depends how protective she is but you both adults and up to you to exsplain to her its your decision and expect the family to support your decision
then again maybe if familys are close they be delighted either way just you and hers business times like this be a man not a boy
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May 18, 2009 1:05 PM CST Advice needed on a peculiar situation urgently
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
biffyclyro: Well recently I met a woman that used to babysit me when I was 5 she was 14 at the time.Well we hit it off so well.you wouldn't believe it had been 15years since we last met.We became great friends while getting very close emotionally and physically..this closeness between soon developed into more then "friendship"..Last weekend we acted upon our forbidden desires.In a sense it was wrong considering our past but it felt so right.Now we don't know what to do because of the age difference and our past.Any ideas?.


unless both of u are involved with other people, i don't see the problem.

Forget the age and go with the flow heart wings
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May 18, 2009 6:45 PM CST Advice needed on a peculiar situation urgently
biffyclyro
biffyclyrobiffyclyroCork, Ireland1 Threads 13 Posts
whaaat: unless both of u are involved with other people, i don't see the problem.

Forget the age and go with the flow


Sounds like a good plan to me.:) thanks cheering
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May 18, 2009 6:50 PM CST Advice needed on a peculiar situation urgently
LovelyAsTheSun
LovelyAsTheSunLovelyAsTheSunMesa, Arizona USA5 Threads 225 Posts
dont let age bother you. if its legal, and both parties are comfortable with it, which you seem to be since things went further, then it shouldnt be a problem. what made you overlook the age difference when you slept with her?
if you both matured, are grown up, and can handle the age difference, then go for it!
if its weird and you keep questioning it, maybe you should just take a little time before making any decisions.wine
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May 18, 2009 6:56 PM CST Advice needed on a peculiar situation urgently
starshinebright
starshinebrightstarshinebrightRiverside, California USA189 Threads 1 Polls 6,305 Posts
Good luck to you, you have been given a lot of good advice, go with your heart!handshake
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May 19, 2009 12:59 AM CST Advice needed on a peculiar situation urgently
Whooops: Your parents obviously thought she was good enough for you when you were 5 else they wouldn't have let her babysit in the first place ......... .....what's changed >>> ??


she might make him eat his cereal in the morningrolling on the floor laughing
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May 19, 2009 2:05 AM CST Advice needed on a peculiar situation urgently
Witchaywoman
WitchaywomanWitchaywomanCarpentersville, Illinois USA97 Threads 13 Polls 4,344 Posts
Play baby sitter every night. Beg her for popcorn and then refuse to go to bed. devil
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May 19, 2009 1:57 PM CST Advice needed on a peculiar situation urgently
Whooops
WhooopsWhooopsBournemouth, Dorset, England UK32 Posts
dragonfly88: she might make him eat his cereal in the morning

hahha ..... and if he's lucky she will send him to bed early if he doesnt wink
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