druidess6308: Age is just a number, and she's only nine years older than you...that's not a huge difference in the long run, really. Especially since most men die before their partners, it would make more sense for a woman to date a younger man. You've known each other for a long time, and if the relationship is that good, who cares what your families think? Hopefully, they love the two of you enough to want you to be happy. Honestly, go for it, enjoy it...and there's nothing "forbidden" about this one.
Best of luck to the two of you.
I don't agree that age is just a number. A man of 40 has different interests than a woman of 20. A woman of 70 has different interests and possibly deteriorating health issues then a man of 50.
He is questioning if he should be with her because of the nature they knew each other. If he thought there might be a problem he should have thought about that before they were intimate.
biffyclyro: Well recently I met a woman that used to babysit me when I was 5 she was 14 at the time.Well we hit it off so well.you wouldn't believe it had been 15years since we last met.We became great friends while getting very close emotionally and physically..this closeness between soon developed into more then "friendship"..Last weekend we acted upon our forbidden desires.In a sense it was wrong considering our past but it felt so right.Now we don't know what to do because of the age difference and our past.Any ideas?.
is there any rules not to in love in older or younger to us?
not that big a age difference might be of concern to your mum depends how protective she is but you both adults and up to you to exsplain to her its your decision and expect the family to support your decision then again maybe if familys are close they be delighted either way just you and hers business times like this be a man not a boy
biffyclyro: Well recently I met a woman that used to babysit me when I was 5 she was 14 at the time.Well we hit it off so well.you wouldn't believe it had been 15years since we last met.We became great friends while getting very close emotionally and physically..this closeness between soon developed into more then "friendship"..Last weekend we acted upon our forbidden desires.In a sense it was wrong considering our past but it felt so right.Now we don't know what to do because of the age difference and our past.Any ideas?.
unless both of u are involved with other people, i don't see the problem.
dont let age bother you. if its legal, and both parties are comfortable with it, which you seem to be since things went further, then it shouldnt be a problem. what made you overlook the age difference when you slept with her? if you both matured, are grown up, and can handle the age difference, then go for it! if its weird and you keep questioning it, maybe you should just take a little time before making any decisions.
Whooops: Your parents obviously thought she was good enough for you when you were 5 else they wouldn't have let her babysit in the first place ......... .....what's changed >>> ??
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tnx
Sheesh thank God for you that you have obviously "grown "
For a minute I thought you were saying that you were the same
as when you were five
Rejoice Enjoy it ,if its what you want .