Advice needed on a peculiar situation urgently (35)
biffyclyroCork, Ireland1 Threads 13 PostsWell recently I met a woman that used to babysit me when I was 5 she was 14 at the time.Well we hit it off so well.you wouldn't believe it had been 15years since we last met.We became great friends while getting very close emotionally and physically..this closeness between soon developed into more then "friendship"..Last weekend we acted upon our forbidden desires.In a sense it was wrong considering our past but it felt so right.Now we don't know what to do because of the age difference and our past.Any ideas?.
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biffyclyro: Well recently I met a woman that used to babysit me when I was 5 she was 14 at the time.Well we hit it off so well.you wouldn't believe it had been 15years since we last met.We became great friends while getting very close emotionally and physically..this closeness between soon developed into more then "friendship"..Last weekend we acted upon our forbidden desires.In a sense it was wrong considering our past but it felt so right.Now we don't know what to do because of the age difference and our past.Any ideas?.
I am curious as to why you use the word forbidden?
Are you related? Doesnt appear so from your post, so whats the problem?
To consenting adults wh get on well and are attracted to each other entering into relationship....nothing wrong with that.
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What other but enjoy?
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Uuuhhmm Where is the problem ? the ideas you have figured out for yourselves.
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It's been 15 years since she babysat you and you are both legal age and consenting adults so I do not see any problems. The fact that you have known each other for a long time might even make the relationship stronger and better. Unless there's some part we are missing I don't see any issues.
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biffyclyro: Well recently I met a woman that used to babysit me when I was 5 she was 14 at the time.Well we hit it off so well.you wouldn't believe it had been 15years since we last met.We became great friends while getting very close emotionally and physically..this closeness between soon developed into more then "friendship"..Last weekend we acted upon our forbidden desires.In a sense it was wrong considering our past but it felt so right.Now we don't know what to do because of the age difference and our past.Any ideas?.
Cool...
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biffyclyro: Well recently I met a woman that used to babysit me when I was 5 she was 14 at the time.Well we hit it off so well.you wouldn't believe it had been 15years since we last met.We became great friends while getting very close emotionally and physically..this closeness between soon developed into more then "friendship"..Last weekend we acted upon our forbidden desires.In a sense it was wrong considering our past but it felt so right.Now we don't know what to do because of the age difference and our past.Any ideas?.
I need more information! First off is she still charging?
Look you are both grown up. Do what you will, you dont need help you need encouragement. I need a drink...
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vonney: I am curious as to why you use the word forbidden?
Are you related? Doesnt appear so from your post, so whats the problem?
To consenting adults wh get on well and are attracted to each other entering into relationship....nothing wrong with that.
Are you related? Doesnt appear so from your post, so whats the problem?
To consenting adults wh get on well and are attracted to each other entering into relationship....nothing wrong with that.
Amm because it feels that way when we were connected in such a different way and our familys have been friends for many years.So we don't know how they'd react.
I agree with you that there is nothing wrong with it if it's two adults..The age difference is just a little hard to get around at the moment..Personally I hope it it works out.She is just amazing.
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ha no she isn't charging lol...I was just looking for a general opinion on the topic.
Good4U2: I need more information! First off is she still charging? Look you are both grown up. Do what you will, you dont need help you need encouragement. I need a drink...
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biffyclyro: Amm because it feels that way when we were connected in such a different way and our familys have been friends for many years.So we don't know how they'd react.
I agree with you that there is nothing wrong with it if it's two adults..The age difference is just a little hard to get around at the moment..Personally I hope it it works out.She is just amazing.
I agree with you that there is nothing wrong with it if it's two adults..The age difference is just a little hard to get around at the moment..Personally I hope it it works out.She is just amazing.
Well I would hope that your families would be happy to see you happy.
If you both want it to work out, go for it.
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Your parents obviously thought she was good enough for you when you were 5 else they wouldn't have let her babysit in the first place .........
.....what's changed >>> ??
.....what's changed >>> ??
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If you think she's amazing then you hold on to her and enjoy your time with her. The family should not even factor into your decision. If you are happy then they will eventually see that and come around. It is your life so enjoy it and don't live with guilt or anything like that. As near as I can figure you are 20 and shes 29. That is nothing to worry about at all. If you like each other then life's too short to worry so much. Live laugh and love.
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biffyclyro: Well recently I met a woman that used to babysit me when I was 5 she was 14 at the time.Well we hit it off so well.you wouldn't believe it had been 15years since we last met.We became great friends while getting very close emotionally and physically..this closeness between soon developed into more then "friendship"..Last weekend we acted upon our forbidden desires.In a sense it was wrong considering our past but it felt so right.Now we don't know what to do because of the age difference and our past.Any ideas?.
Biff are you worried that she saw your willie when you were a
babe ???
Oh no just kidding , she is only 9 years older than you ,
you aren't related so IMO do what you feel is right for you
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browneyesgml: If you think she's amazing then you hold on to her and enjoy your time with her. The family should not even factor into your decision. If you are happy then they will eventually see that and come around. It is your life so enjoy it and don't live with guilt or anything like that. As near as I can figure you are 20 and shes 29. That is nothing to worry about at all. If you like each other then life's too short to worry so much. Live laugh and love.
Yeh well thanks.Your point about "that it has been 15 yrs since she babysat me is a good one and has been considerd. It's just initially hard to forget that. But i'm sure that won't stay for long..amm ya I'm 20 v v v soon..thanks,life really is too short.
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biffyclyro: Well recently I met a woman that used to babysit me when I was 5 she was 14 at the time.Well we hit it off so well.you wouldn't believe it had been 15years since we last met.We became great friends while getting very close emotionally and physically..this closeness between soon developed into more then "friendship"..Last weekend we acted upon our forbidden desires.In a sense it was wrong considering our past but it felt so right.Now we don't know what to do because of the age difference and our past.Any ideas?.
If that is her in your pic I say why are you waisting time here...Life is to short to worry about what others think although we all do it. Damn the torpedoes... ------ This thread is Archived ------
livinglarge: Biff are you worried that she saw your willie when you were a
babe ???
Oh no just kidding , she is only 9 years older than you ,
you aren't related so IMO do what you feel is right for you
babe ???
Oh no just kidding , she is only 9 years older than you ,
you aren't related so IMO do what you feel is right for you
ha she prob did but i'm not worried about that.
..tnx
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biffyclyro: Amm because it feels that way when we were connected in such a different way and our familys have been friends for many years.So we don't know how they'd react.
I agree with you that there is nothing wrong with it if it's two adults..The age difference is just a little hard to get around at the moment..Personally I hope it it works out.She is just amazing.
I agree with you that there is nothing wrong with it if it's two adults..The age difference is just a little hard to get around at the moment..Personally I hope it it works out.She is just amazing.
Age is just a number, and she's only nine years older than you...that's not a huge difference in the long run, really. Especially since most men die before their partners, it would make more sense for a woman to date a younger man. You've known each other for a long time, and if the relationship is that good, who cares what your families think? Hopefully, they love the two of you enough to want you to be happy. Honestly, go for it, enjoy it...and there's nothing "forbidden" about this one.
Best of luck to the two of you.
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