Can somebody tell me what is the point of advertising yourself on a site like this.....and not supply a photo ??????? What's the point, come on girls, don't be shy let's have a look at you eh !!!!, then maybe we can start something rolling. Would you buy something in a sack from somebody without seeing it first ?.....answer you are looking for is NO!!
SensualVixen: Some do not post a pic for personal reasons, whether it be they don't have a scanner, digital camera. for family reasons, job security etc.
Some are here just for the forums.
Mmmmmmmmmmmmm I sort of see where you are coming from
BonzoDog1: Can somebody tell me what is the point of advertising yourself on a site like this.....and not supply a photo ??????? What's the point, come on girls, don't be shy let's have a look at you eh !!!!, then maybe we can start something rolling. Would you buy something in a sack from somebody without seeing it first ?.....answer you are looking for is NO!!
Not everyone is here to Advertise themselves and its not just women that chose not to show a photograph. Also people do it for personal reasons which I can respect as its their choice. As regards your point of buyin something in a sack without seeing it first.... ............maybe some people prefer to communicate for a while before hitting thebuying a sack........
vinny1967: Not everyone is here to Advertise themselves and its not just women that chose not to show a photograph. Also people do it for personal reasons which I can respect as its their choice. As regards your point of buyin something in a sack without seeing it first.... ............maybe some people prefer to communicate for a while before hitting thebuying a sack........
Why waste precious time with chat, if at the end you don't like what you see ?
BonzoDog1: Why waste precious time with chat, if at the end you don't like what you see ?
Why don't you see if you like them with your inner eyes first? What's wrong with that? Then if you like the inner person, see if you like the outer person before taking it further.
BonzoDog1: Can somebody tell me what is the point of advertising yourself on a site like this.....and not supply a photo ??????? What's the point, come on girls, don't be shy let's have a look at you eh !!!!, then maybe we can start something rolling. Would you buy something in a sack from somebody without seeing it first ?.....answer you are looking for is NO!!
when u buy a candy from the store, u don't open the pack to taste it first before u buy, u just know it taste good.
druidess6308: Why don't you see if you like them with your inner eyes first? What's wrong with that? Then if you like the inner person, see if you like the outer person before taking it further.
druidess6308: Why don't you see if you like them with your inner eyes first? What's wrong with that? Then if you like the inner person, see if you like the outer person before taking it further.
Hi Dru, that sounds all very noble etc, but if someone needs that Grrrr factor, outer beauty in addition to inner then it could be a heck of a waste of their time, and what if they were liers anyway. At least a picture ( current one ) is an honest start.
to OP, others have already explained some reasons for no picture being shown, they are in the minority so just move on and ignore, plenty more fish to see if that's what you need first.
SensualVixenTampa Bay area, Florida USA1,726 posts
RDM59: Hi Dru, that sounds all very noble etc, but if someone needs that Grrrr factor, outer beauty in addition to inner then it could be a heck of a waste of their time, and what if they were liers anyway. At least a picture ( current one ) is an honest start.
to OP, others have already explained some reasons for no picture being shown, they are in the minority so just move on and ignore, plenty more fish to see if that's what you need first.
And good luck to ya.
If they are liars to begin with then a picture certainly isn't going to help them.........
druidess6308: Why don't you see if you like them with your inner eyes first? What's wrong with that? Then if you like the inner person, see if you like the outer person before taking it further.
What a beautiful way to put it, Dru!
I actually never thought of it this way.
But you are so right: with conventional dating you have no other choice but seeing a physical appearance first and you get to know them after, gradually... but rejections are common anyway, even if their appearance is to your liking. Because of all the other incompatibilities.
Why not the other way around?
I never tried talking to a person without seeing their face, but might be even fun. We all do it in forums after all if we like their personality.
SensualVixen: Some do not post a pic for personal reasons, whether it be they don't have a scanner, digital camera. for family reasons, job security etc.
bestat45saint john, New Brunswick Canada1,169 posts
SensualVixen: Some do not post a pic for personal reasons, whether it be they don't have a scanner, digital camera. for family reasons, job security etc.
Some are here just for the forums.
even at that, it is kind of nice to know who you are speaking to even on the forums. I have avoided cameras for years, however, i felt that if i would like to see photos of others, it would be hypocritical of me not to put one up as well. Can understand the reasons why some don't though.
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Can somebody tell me what is the point of advertising yourself on a site like this.....and not supply a photo ???????
What's the point, come on girls, don't be shy let's have a look at you eh !!!!, then maybe we can start something rolling.
Would you buy something in a sack from somebody without seeing it first ?.....answer you are looking for is NO!!