Guys, Does it matter how many.....? (195)
I have no idea why I have a capital 'D' up there. 
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lusciousmile: I jokingly just asked a friend on another thread, about how many men she had been with, which leads me to my question; Does it matter to you how many guys a woman has been with before you? If I slept with six men, and my friend two, would you think more highly of her than you would me?I also have a question for those dating women outside their race, culture or nationality. There was this one guy who got tideously jealous when I told him I had previously dated a man from his country. Would you feel this way, as well?
a. I can't judge a woman with the past I have
b. The past is just that, the past
c. I've only dated one from outside my country, Canada,,, if that even counts,,,
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ImInMishawaka: a. I can't judge a woman with the past I have
b. The past is just that, the past
c. I've only dated one from outside my country, Canada,,, if that even counts,,,
b. The past is just that, the past
c. I've only dated one from outside my country, Canada,,, if that even counts,,,
Seriously? Even if she had slept with 1117 men before you?
No, Canada is on another planet, but the example will do, thanks.
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imn my opinion why should it matter whos had how many partners in the past when your trying to build a future together should look forward not dwell on the past! as to different cultures why should it matter if we black brown or white or what nationality we are all human beings and if theres an attraction thats good enough for me.
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They're all going to say they don't care how many, or just not answer.
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niceguy43: imn my opinion why should it matter whos had how many partners in the past when your trying to build a future together should look forward not dwell on the past! as to different cultures why should it matter if we black brown or white or what nationality we are all human beings and if theres an attraction thats good enough for me.
Thanks for the response. About the race thing, that was not the issue, I was asking about jealousy because a foreign woman has been with another man from your race.
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if someone worrys about there past its not a good foundation for a good start is it! i dont see the point on dwelling on the past a new life to try and develop deserves a new start no !
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lusciousmile: They're all going to say they don't care how many, or just not answer.
Not all but some of us will,,,
a preconceived notion ???
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lusciousmile: They're all going to say they don't care how many, or just not answer.
shouldn't make any difference the past is past and he knew you weren't virgin when you got together, now on the 1100 some you wouldn't have to tell you would walk around with your knees together to keep your guts from falling out
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But who would tell anyway if the number is high. Some men think.
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ImInMishawaka: a. I can't judge a woman with the past I have
b. The past is just that, the past
c. I've only dated one from outside my country, Canada,,, if that even counts,,,
b. The past is just that, the past
c. I've only dated one from outside my country, Canada,,, if that even counts,,,
Cause Canada is America right?
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To me it would matter only if you were trying to get into my pants... WOOHOO!!! ...but if for some reason, that lady and I fell in love, it wouldn't matter if I was the 118th... for reals, love conquers all!
And as for the interracial thing... nothing wrong with that either, women are beautiful people... take you for example.
And as for the interracial thing... nothing wrong with that either, women are beautiful people... take you for example.
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I wouldn't think any less of you Luscious, but then I won't date or bed you.
That said if a man who is considering dating me and is concerned about the number of men I "had" in the past would have to be very forthcoming with his number too. That in and of itself leaves a lot of room for either of us to make our numbers sound more palatable, if we had that concern. IF we are on that sort of path then there has not been a good level of trust established anyway, and the relationship is then doomed from the beginning anyway.
That said if a man who is considering dating me and is concerned about the number of men I "had" in the past would have to be very forthcoming with his number too. That in and of itself leaves a lot of room for either of us to make our numbers sound more palatable, if we had that concern. IF we are on that sort of path then there has not been a good level of trust established anyway, and the relationship is then doomed from the beginning anyway.
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cristina: Cause Canada is America right?
Nice try,,,
Her original post is about foreigners, correct? I really don't see Canadians as foreigners.
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see i am right now mommy will have a big headache for u,were is my belt? 
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ImInMishawaka: Nice try,,,
Her original post is about foreigners, correct? I really don't see Canadians as foreigners.
Her original post is about foreigners, correct? I really don't see Canadians as foreigners.
And Europeans and Australians?
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nurcnurc: I wouldn't think any less of you Luscious, but then I won't date or bed you.
That said if a man who is considering dating me and is concerned about the number of men I "had" in the past would have to be very forthcoming with his number too. That in and of itself leaves a lot of room for either of us to make our numbers sound more palatable, if we had that concern. IF we are on that sort of path then there has not been a good level of trust established anyway, and the relationship is then doomed from the beginning anyway.
That said if a man who is considering dating me and is concerned about the number of men I "had" in the past would have to be very forthcoming with his number too. That in and of itself leaves a lot of room for either of us to make our numbers sound more palatable, if we had that concern. IF we are on that sort of path then there has not been a good level of trust established anyway, and the relationship is then doomed from the beginning anyway.
eloquent,,,
I make it clear from the beginning of any relationship,,,
Ask any question you want and I will answer it truthfully,,,
but,,,
you need to make sure you are willing, ready and able to hear it.
There is a reason I am not concerned with how many men a woman has been with...
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honey,if this guy is really love u and serious no matter what is happened in your past,the point is both of u are happy ,if he is jealous maybe he feel insecured but just tell him thats nothing complication about your relationship to him.. 
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I also have a question for those dating women outside their race, culture or nationality. There was this one guy who got tideously jealous when I told him I had previously dated a man from his country. Would you feel this way, as well?