i think to many act to quick and decision made to quick and people who do that to me im glad as i dont need that sort of person i want lots of conversation and a lot of learning each other i dont want a beauty but she turns out to be a monster inside . i want a person with a warm heart and not to bothered bout looks inner beauty better than outer beauty. and those that dont give you time of day to chat are just shallow minded people.
to treat people with the respect they deserve. live life to the max and not to judge people by the colour of there skin which to many people do here its wrong and unethical. were all humans.
hi everyone i live on the isle of wight it seems difficult to draw attention living on the island i would travel off it to meet people wether it be for a day on the beach or a pub meal just as friends or i would like to meet people to talk on the internet as friends as life does get lonely at home on your own . or if i met someone i was interested in i would travel. i have created this thread as being on the isle of wight seems to put a lot of people off to even talk or say hallo. im looking to make friends on the net or for social meets on my quest to finding that special person for me. dont be shy come say hallo i dont bite and have a good sense of humour.
i think to some it does matter as some cant handle the attraction of a thin person and vice versa . but if someone is sincere about a relationship then its more important to me to find out the sort of lady she is from with in her soul. if you are to live together and commit surely the inner beauty is a lot more important than the outer beauty. for people who do the casual stuff and thats all they want then i can understand it just being the outer beauty also. but not to commit.
if someone worrys about there past its not a good foundation for a good start is it! i dont see the point on dwelling on the past a new life to try and develop deserves a new start no !
imn my opinion why should it matter whos had how many partners in the past when your trying to build a future together should look forward not dwell on the past! as to different cultures why should it matter if we black brown or white or what nationality we are all human beings and if theres an attraction thats good enough for me.
it could of been possible the guy thought he was ready for a relationship but when he got the offer he wasnt ready and didnt know how to tell the lady. and just give the cold shoulder it happens!
i believe it gives the horse more freedom to use its boday and get the max out of it rather then having someone sat on your back and restricting your movement allows the horse to get in a better rtyhm.
the isle of wight where ver you go on the island so much beauty and so much to do for all ages and full of beautiful beaches busy deserted caters for everything and most islanders are people moved here like myself came nine yrs running then thought i got to live here and moved here.
in a way i agree i would love to talk andchat to people and am genuine to anyone that would talk to me be for relationship friends chat whatever . but if i mail tend not get much luck down to the bad guys that try and fake it i suppose. butif i leave comp on all the time i tend to get a genuine few that will take the time of day to talk and have a lot more success that way . i have practically given up trying to make first base myself that i think hey shes nice i like what shes got to say . lets try and get no where but if you wait and someone calls you you seem to be able to have nice conversations and i put that down to she wanted to talk and mail me first. shame theres not more like that would be pleasant to wait by my pc.
i have found over the years that the harder you try the least luck you have in your search for love and that it always seems to come along when you are least expecting it. theres food for thought. could it be a turn off people trying to hard to make connections do people get drawn to single person that is not trying so hard. everyone wants to find that special person me included but some people i find try to hard and thatis enough to put a lot off. comments please!
when you pass each other and you dont need to say anything and you can see in her eyes how much she loves you and it makes you feel so good without a word being spoken because you know your the reason that words wasnt needed thats when it right. when you see her glowing and radiant and you just want to reach out and touch every time you pass. that feeling is special.
and some women dont seem to understand that us men can be just as hurt as them and have been . i was truly in love when she did the dirty but hey i want it again and if not prepared to try then how do you go forward in life !
a lot of interesting thoughts and also a lot of negative thoughts .can understand why some are here trying hard and searching . also wonder why some are here even bothering. you have always got to put 50 50 into any realtionship or there will always be uncommon ground reached and thats what leads to the start of a rocky path.there always has to be a meet you in the middle input weather it be good or bad where you both agree to say thats fair its in the middle and your both happy be good or bad!
why do you say because men are so distrustful .are you then. if so hope u have put it in your profile as its people like that that cause people like me from being able to meet and talk
it is the same for men to ive shed so many tears its unreal im emotional and feel just like a women and i hurt when it goes wrong just as much as you and killkenny u ever want to chat you message me and then we can talk about it as mutual friends as i know what you feel
yes it would me 2 but we all not like that and i could say the same bout some i talked to but im still gonna try and find that special lady for friendship or romance and after all we on a pac not like you gonna get hurt to much by talking and finding the time of day to learn about one another .
yes i understand that but have had chats where some think you fake after a minutes talk but also built a great friendship with a female here who took the time of day to learn me even though it only be to entertain each other with laughter on the site at night .wish others took long enough to learn the person inside
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RE: IF WE ARE ALL HERE FOR THE SAME REASON WHY CAN,T WE MEET SOMEONE
i think to many act to quick and decision made to quick and people who do that to me im glad as i dont need that sort of person i want lots of conversation and a lot of learning each other i dont want a beauty but she turns out to be a monster inside . i want a person with a warm heart and not to bothered bout looks inner beauty better than outer beauty. and those that dont give you time of day to chat are just shallow minded people.