Dating (9)

Jun 3, 2009 5:33 PM CST Dating
Data63
Data63Data63North Wales, Clwyd, Wales UK25 Threads 7 Polls 465 Posts
Are women really serious about dating on this site or just here to pass the time ? confused
Jun 4, 2009 2:07 AM CST Dating
sasseez
sasseezsasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1 Threads 3,150 Posts
Well there will be a high percentage that is, but some are here just for the forums but they usually say that on there profile, but you will get some who are just here for something to do, but im sure you will syphon them out,
good luck.wine
Jun 4, 2009 2:35 AM CST Dating
geminiman61
geminiman61geminiman61nottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK3 Threads 759 Posts
I would disagree with Sass only because i like to wind her uplaugh
I think it's a low percentage and i have facts on my side there have been polls on CS and i think the conclusion was that only around 5% actually go on dates the majority either take the piss or just want friends sure you will or you might find a date or two.5% might sound a low number but if your after just one person this sites another arrow for your bow or another rod in the fire.Go on the forums have a laugh and who knows what's around the corner i would try other sites that have more people in your locality because most on here are miles away but as they say love will conquer all.
Good luck with your search matecheers
Jun 4, 2009 5:53 PM CST Dating
ally76
ally76ally76Harlow, Essex, England UK3 Threads 14 Posts
I have joined the site to hopefully find someone but come on the forums to chat with anyone both male and female not neccessarily looking for a date but if I get chatting to a nice lady you never know. I like chatting with anyone and making friends cyber or in real life is always a bonus...
Jun 4, 2009 5:57 PM CST Dating
retroprincess
retroprincessretroprincessleek, Staffordshire, England UK183 Posts
im on the site for dating and friends [to meet ] and come on the forums to read other peroples views and interesting and humourous chatscheering
Jun 4, 2009 6:35 PM CST Dating
flans
flansflansglasgow, Central, Scotland UK40 Posts
knowing that women.are turned on by what they read and hear,,,forums are the ideal vehicle for us guys,,,lol
Jun 4, 2009 6:37 PM CST Dating
flans
flansflansglasgow, Central, Scotland UK40 Posts
dont tell me am wrong girls,,,cos who is it that spends the most time talking on the phone,,or txtn,,who sends the most cards,,,yep,,,its chiks..lol
Jun 5, 2009 8:34 AM CST Dating
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
Data63: Are women really serious about dating on this site or just here to pass the time ?
Here to pass the time when I've any spare, which sadly isn't often help
Jun 6, 2009 9:11 PM CST Dating
urbanmyth
urbanmythurbanmythEDINBURGH, Lothian, Scotland UK10 Threads 435 Posts
I've been off and on this site a few years. (2003 & 2004, and now again this year).

Never had a date off this site yet!
Faceparty? Yeah, back in 2003, before it turned Nedsville.
Love@lycos? Yeah few years back, had a few dates.

Tried CS few years ago, nothing.

Been seeing a gal for a few years, that ended a while back.
So trying CS again, but...like a few years ago...nothing so far.

So far, near as I can figure...CS seems to be an alternative to online bingo. Sort of an online babysitter for adults.
But checking out the forums (like a few years back) no one seems to be dating anyone.

I get loadsa responses from real nice ladies, fun, smart, good self images....but almost always live a million miles away. Most are on other continents.

One thing that's true of online dating in general:
Sure, there are always those online who will be your best friend, soulmate or even think they've fallen for you, so long as your thousands of miles away from them.....but if you turned up on their doorstep (or even in their town!) they'd run a mile or slam the door!

Do yourself a favor and don't humour the timewasters. After a very few messages, it's time to meet for coffee.

If they're too far away, or not really available, or even not really up for it (too shy, too actually married, too full of BS etc) then don't let them waste your time. Go do something in the real world, who knows you might meet someone who likes doing the sames things you like doin'.

Dunno 'bout all you people, but I'm not gonna spend my life tied to a computer search-engine-ing up long distance virtual romances with people who half the time aren't really who they make themselves out to be.

And I'm not gonna spend my evenings or weekends with a drink by the computer using the forums as an inexpensive cyber pub.
(No one is really that lonely, but keep doing it and you soon will be).

You're never gonna meet someone in your own house. And if you're gonna ever meet anyone online, there's no reason not to have that 1st coffee date within 1 week worth's of messages/email's.


Forgive any missssspellings...it's late.
yawn!
sleep
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